Post by McRoomMate on Feb 4, 2017 3:19:32 GMT -5
beachguy This is the quote that really hits home
"Expect to be in a totally celibate relationship, and probably sooner than later. And if you are like all of us here, the decision to go totally celibate will effectively be yours after you lose your sexual attraction to him. That is your future."
Yes, I can confirm at this point 10 years in a Sexless Marriage there is no "Refuser" any more because no one - not me, not my W is even bothering to ask. I have ZERO will to initiate - my Wife is still quite beautiful but No, no freaking way. I cannot "manufacture" Love and Passion.
I think we can almost say that SM is a "progressive disease" and just gets worse.
From what little posted so far - -- this Marriage seem 99% doomed and expecting such a dramatic "miraculous" change in your H seems impossible. Miracles can happen but the Resentment will build and the Love will be annihilated if my experience proves any worth.
"Expect to be in a totally celibate relationship, and probably sooner than later. And if you are like all of us here, the decision to go totally celibate will effectively be yours after you lose your sexual attraction to him. That is your future."
Yes, I can confirm at this point 10 years in a Sexless Marriage there is no "Refuser" any more because no one - not me, not my W is even bothering to ask. I have ZERO will to initiate - my Wife is still quite beautiful but No, no freaking way. I cannot "manufacture" Love and Passion.
I think we can almost say that SM is a "progressive disease" and just gets worse.
From what little posted so far - -- this Marriage seem 99% doomed and expecting such a dramatic "miraculous" change in your H seems impossible. Miracles can happen but the Resentment will build and the Love will be annihilated if my experience proves any worth.
