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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 26, 2017 13:29:30 GMT -5
I am curious if many people have had their sm validated by having their private parts insulted.
My husband once told me that I was too loose and it took a whole year for it to tighten up by a tiny bit.
I wonder how many of us there actually are. I quit wondering why he does this. I know its complete BS but it still bothers me.
Did anyone else experience this.
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Post by thebaffledking on Jan 26, 2017 14:42:03 GMT -5
"Being pencil thin might make it seem that way, but I assure you, I'm fine."
My wife never went after my manhood, but she had some doozies about my whole body. I'm a big thick guy, not fat........but she once said she was like Carrie, "the hot one" and I was like Doug, "The fat funny one" (King of Queens reference - nice!) She once said, "your body is a wonderland (as in the song)......but not in a good way." She once said, "I just can't be like those wives on The Biggest Loser who seem to love their husbands no matter what"......I guess inferring that I'm morbidly obese? WTF? I'm not FAT, I'm built like a linebacker, WTF WTF WTF!
Of course she's rail thin and likes "runner bodies". PFFT..........
I'm sorry, dtr......they will do anything and say anything to deflect away from themselves and make it all our fault. What he said to you was brutally unnecessary and hurtful...all to protect himself from having to admit what he really is or rather what this is really all about.
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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 26, 2017 15:02:57 GMT -5
yeah. the first time was at 21, when he told me I was old and loose. And asked me what happened to his young, tight, teenage wife.
le sigh
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Post by deadzone75 on Jan 26, 2017 15:04:09 GMT -5
I've never had my body insulted, but I think a SM is an insult to one's parts (and everything else). It is a gradual insult, taking away your confidence and self-esteem bit by bit.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 26, 2017 15:09:37 GMT -5
Well, when I would ask my refuser about the no sex marriage, she would say I had ED. She said, "It doesn't matter because your penis doesn't even work any more!"
Really made me want to seek out a second opinion.
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Post by jgb on Jan 26, 2017 15:27:28 GMT -5
I am curious if many people have had their sm validated by having their private parts insulted. My husband once told me that I was too loose and it took a whole year for it to tighten up by a tiny bit. I wonder how many of us there actually are. I quit wondering why he does this. I know its complete BS but it still bothers me. Did anyone else experience this. Jesus H tap-dancing Christ! I can literally not imagine anyone being that big of an asshole. Holy shit. In your shoes, (which for a guy, I guess would be having the size of your penis disparaged), I would not have said a word. Just turned around and walked away...and kept walking. |
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Post by Cass on Jan 26, 2017 15:37:26 GMT -5
I had my significant other get drunk one night (last Valentine's Day actually) and when I asked why we don't have sex anymore he told me it was because I had gained too much weight. Yep.
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Post by lyn on Jan 26, 2017 16:29:40 GMT -5
I am curious if many people have had their sm validated by having their private parts insulted. My husband once told me that I was too loose and it took a whole year for it to tighten up by a tiny bit. I wonder how many of us there actually are. I quit wondering why he does this. I know its complete BS but it still bothers me. Did anyone else experience this. As long as you know deep down that he is full of shit, that's what matters darktippedrose. I'm sorry he said that to you. What an ass. He said this, quite possibly, because he's insecure with the size of his penis. Before you could sit there and think at the ripe old age of 21,"Hmmmmm he's a little on the small side." He tried to cut you off at the pass with that hideous remark. |
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Post by lyn on Jan 26, 2017 16:32:19 GMT -5
"Being pencil thin might make it seem that way, but I assure you, I'm fine." My wife never went after my manhood, but she had some doozies about my whole body. I'm a big thick guy, not fat........but she once said she was like Carrie, "the hot one" and I was like Doug, "The fat funny one" (King of Queens reference - nice!) She once said, "your body is a wonderland (as in the song)......but not in a good way." She once said, "I just can't be like those wives on The Biggest Loser who seem to love their husbands no matter what"......I guess inferring that I'm morbidly obese? WTF? I'm not FAT, I'm built like a linebacker, WTF WTF WTF! Of course she's rail thin and likes "runner bodies". PFFT.......... I'm sorry, dtr......they will do anything and say anything to deflect away from themselves and make it all our fault. What he said to you was brutally unnecessary and hurtful...all to protect himself from having to admit what he really is or rather what this is really all about. We need a thumbs-down button. 😞 |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 26, 2017 17:32:35 GMT -5
"Being pencil thin might make it seem that way, but I assure you, I'm fine." My wife never went after my manhood, but she had some doozies about my whole body. I'm a big thick guy, not fat........but she once said she was like Carrie, "the hot one" and I was like Doug, "The fat funny one" (King of Queens reference - nice!) She once said, "your body is a wonderland (as in the song)......but not in a good way." She once said, "I just can't be like those wives on The Biggest Loser who seem to love their husbands no matter what"......I guess inferring that I'm morbidly obese? WTF? I'm not FAT, I'm built like a linebacker, WTF WTF WTF! Of course she's rail thin and likes "runner bodies". PFFT.......... I'm sorry, dtr......they will do anything and say anything to deflect away from themselves and make it all our fault. What he said to you was brutally unnecessary and hurtful...all to protect himself from having to admit what he really is or rather what this is really all about. I know what you mean. I was a linebacker in HS & I am still built like it. I have been told that most women kind of like being with a solid man because it makes them feel safe. |
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Post by baza on Jan 26, 2017 22:28:30 GMT -5
He's a real prize this spouse of yours dtr.
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Post by Apocrypha on Jan 26, 2017 22:50:16 GMT -5
It was part of Mrs. Apocrypha's affable "schtick" in mixed company, to enlist the ladies among the group in her thesis that men's junk looked "funny" at best, and strange or unpleasant at worst. Men would often jump in on the affirmative on that, and generally the women among the group whom I suspected were also having marital problems would also jump in with her.
Given some of my social activities (I perform in a world famous pop choir), I am friends with quite a few gay and bi men. In the years thereafter, I was surprised to find that Mrs. A's view is not widely held among gay men. Nor, really among many of the women I've dated since then who really seem to enjoy sex and enjoy me. I thought Mrs A's view was normal. Now, not so sure.
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Post by petrushka on Jan 26, 2017 23:21:05 GMT -5
Rose, we all know that that 'husband' of yours has shit for brains, and he is an uncouth, stupid, abusive
arsehole. He was just making sure that you remember, and trying to reinforce your battered woman's syndrome
by making you feel bad. That, he thinks, gives him power over you.
Once again, it seems, he was at least partially successful. You should let his abusive stuff roll off you
like water off a duck's back, but I realize that that is easier said than done.
You really need to brain that fucktard with a rolling pin and dump him into a cesspool where he will hopefully
expire due to inhalation of methane and hydrogen sulfide.
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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 27, 2017 18:22:52 GMT -5
I have heard, on multiple occasions lately about me and battered wife syndrome. I think this weekend or next week (I don't get much internet time on the weekends) I'm going to have to reearch it. Maybe more awareness in this area would be helpful.
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