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Post by rejected101 on Jan 24, 2017 17:06:48 GMT -5
There used to be a silence in my house or maybe a comment from the wife along lines of "she's going for it isn't she?". However, ever since I started having the courage to respond to her piss takes about noise - along the lines of "nothing wrong with a woman who actually enjoys sex" or be the first to make a comment such as "that's the closest this lounge has seen to sexual exchange for the last 2 years" I feel a lot better. It's immature admittedly but why I should I continue listening to negative comments about noise or panting without responding. Good for you! Sex should involve all the senses including the ears. I'm extremely audio and I love talking of all different things during sex. Quietness during sex is boring. I think it adds so much to sex when you let go, lose your inhibitions and make noise. I don't mean forced noise just normal (whatever normal is for the individual that is). There's nothing sexier!
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Post by csl on Jan 24, 2017 17:16:15 GMT -5
There used to be a silence in my house or maybe a comment from the wife along lines of "she's going for it isn't she?". However, ever since I started having the courage to respond to her piss takes about noise - along the lines of "nothing wrong with a woman who actually enjoys sex" or be the first to make a comment such as "that's the closest this lounge has seen to sexual exchange for the last 2 years" I feel a lot better. It's immature admittedly but why I should I continue listening to negative comments about noise or panting without responding. I feel ya! It's a great movie. Over on xforum, it's considered required watching, right up alongside of Passion of the Christ.
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Post by thebaffledking on Jan 24, 2017 17:26:11 GMT -5
Mine will usually say "Oh GAWD" and then check her phone until it's over.
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Post by rejected101 on Jan 24, 2017 17:33:53 GMT -5
H and I NEVER watch TV together. Couldn't tell you the last TV show we have watched together. We have 11 TV's and 5 living rooms. So, we watch TV separately. He hates the shows I watch, which is fine with me. At least this way you have fun on your own if something particularly sexy is on!
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Post by misssunnybunny on Jan 24, 2017 17:38:56 GMT -5
I don't know how he felt, but anything involving a romantic/sexy scene was very uncomfortable for me because I was stuck watching with someone who I knew wasn't going to touch me at all. Now that i'm out I can watch whatever I want.
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Post by rejected101 on Jan 24, 2017 17:43:39 GMT -5
I don't know how he felt, but anything involving a romantic/sexy scene was very uncomfortable for me because I was stuck watching with someone who I knew wasn't going to touch me at all. Now that i'm out I can watch whatever I want. And be touched by whom ever you like.
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Post by baza on Jan 24, 2017 17:49:46 GMT -5
The tv doesn't get much of a run at our place. Ms enna and I tend to watch doco's and suchlike stuff if there's anything that looks half interesting on.
But if we are watching something, it always seems to end up with a sprawl of her me and the dog on the couch loosely intertwined, and if there is a bit of sex / nudity being broadcast, I can usually not resist giving Ms enna tits a casual touch.
Back in the days of my ILIASM deal, joint tv watching was a non event. My missus would be watching tv in her bedroom, I'd be watching tv in the lounge, so what she may have said / done when a bit of titillation came on the screen, I have no clue.
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 24, 2017 18:02:50 GMT -5
Good for you! Sex should involve all the senses including the ears. I'm extremely audio and I love talking of all different things during sex. Quietness during sex is boring. I think it adds so much to sex when you let go, lose your inhibitions and make noise. I don't mean forced noise just normal (whatever normal is for the individual that is). There's nothing sexier! And some dirty talk lol don't forget the dirty talk!
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Post by greatcoastal on Jan 24, 2017 18:05:57 GMT -5
!8 yrs of TV watching all revolving around "the children"! Even in our own room, in case the children came in. At best, we would watch news channels together,and mute things when the kids were there. My W. was more than happy to have the kids between us whenever possible. At best if there were kissing scenes,my w. would half jokingly cover the kids eyes. At the few "R" rated movies we would go see together, (Titanic,comes to mind) I would look her way, while she would stare straight forward, avoiding any communication.
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Post by rejected101 on Jan 24, 2017 18:20:47 GMT -5
I think it adds so much to sex when you let go, lose your inhibitions and make noise. I don't mean forced noise just normal (whatever normal is for the individual that is). There's nothing sexier! And some dirty talk lol don't forget the dirty talk! And a spank here and there ;-)
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Post by rejected101 on Jan 24, 2017 18:26:33 GMT -5
!8 yrs of TV watching all revolving around "the children"! Even in our own room, in case the children came in. At best, we would watch news channels together,and mute things when the kids were there. My W. was more than happy to have the kids between us whenever possible. At best if there were kissing scenes,my w. would half jokingly cover the kids eyes. At the few "R" rated movies we would go see together, (Titanic,comes to mind) I would look her way, while she would stare straight forward, avoiding any communication. I stopped looking in the direction of my mrs and have taken to staring straight at the screen for the good bits. If a comment comes my way, I answer it with honesty. Wife " loads of men fancy her" Me "you can include me in the most men"
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Post by lwoetin on Jan 24, 2017 23:00:31 GMT -5
My wife stopped watching TV with me ever since we watched Bruno. Well, I enjoyed it. Now she just wants to watch Jason Bourne action movies. There are no sex scenes. Matt Damon is gay.
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Post by completelybaked on Jan 24, 2017 23:25:20 GMT -5
What gets me are the Viagra and Cialis commercials. I have seen the cardiologist and he says my heart IS healthy enough for sex. My wife squirms when I point that out.
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Post by johnwyo1 on Jan 25, 2017 10:45:18 GMT -5
My wife will often compliment the female in the scene on specifics of her anatomy (I don't dare), but in a kind of tone like it's as casual as ordering food at the drive-through. My wife comments like that on male and female anatomy and looks, too. I don't dare, just like you wrote. It's also pretty emotionless when my wife comments except when she doesn't like the female actor and therefore is mean or critical.
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Post by Dan on Jan 25, 2017 10:49:46 GMT -5
H and I NEVER watch TV together. Couldn't tell you the last TV show we have watched together. We have 11 TV's and 5 living rooms. So, we watch TV separately. He hates the shows I watch, which is fine with me. OK then... I'll be right over. What slightly steamy/sexy thing do you want to watch? With that many TVs and living rooms, I'd estimate we could binge watch a whole season of Mad Men or Masters of Sex before your H even found us...
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