Hi to all my EP/ILSM friends!

sodone1492
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Hi to all my EP/ILSM friends! Jan 24, 2017 0:25:23 GMT -5 Dan, thefullmoon, and 6 more like this

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Post by sodone1492 on Jan 24, 2017 0:25:23 GMT -5

It's been a long time since I've logged in. Hope everyone is doing well. Me? My divorce was final 10 months ago....I can honestly say I've never been happier. I'm still involved with my 3rd AP...he left his wife a couple of months ago. He's living in a tiny apartment after living 20 years in a huge house...he too marvels in how good it feels to be free from the manipulation and abusive nature of a SM.

Not sure who is still posting here...Dan? SmarKat? Bball? Bazz? Hugs to you all. xo

BTW..if I'm violating forum rules by posting like this, please forgive me and delete.

bballgirl Senior Members Posts: 3,462	Hi to all my EP/ILSM friends! Jan 24, 2017 9:57:05 GMT -5 via mobile greatcoastal, sodone1492, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bballgirl on Jan 24, 2017 9:57:05 GMT -5 I am so happy for you. You are an inspiration and I wish you all the best!! May 2017 be a great year for you!! Hugs xoxo
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solodriver Senior Members Emotionally Seperated Posts: 1,697 Age Range: 56-60	Hi to all my EP/ILSM friends! Jan 24, 2017 13:46:37 GMT -5 greatcoastal and sodone1492 like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by solodriver on Jan 24, 2017 13:46:37 GMT -5 I love hearing success stories! It gives me hope!
	It’s hard to continue to love someone romantically who doesn’t love you back in the way you need to feel like a whole person.

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Hi to all my EP/ILSM friends! Jan 25, 2017 13:16:35 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2017 13:16:35 GMT -5 sodone1492, great to hear from you! I'm glad things are going well.

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Hi to all my EP/ILSM friends! Jan 25, 2017 13:41:24 GMT -5 greatcoastal and sodone1492 like this

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Post by ModCasper on Jan 25, 2017 13:41:24 GMT -5

sodone1492 : Definitely NOT breaking any rules by posting what you did!

In fact... I wish it were a rule that:

1) Everyone who wants it can manage an escape like you did...
2) Land as happily in "Oppositeland" as you did...
3) Regularly drop by to give hope to those of us still on this side of the SM!

mirrororchid: We've compared denier/refuser spouses to prison wardens. Dr. Psychmom has compared them to hostage takers and the unhappy spouse has Stockholm syndrome. Prisoners can't leave. Stockholm hostages don't because they want a good outcome for the captor. Sept 10, 2024 18:54:11 GMT -5

mirrororchid: Heard on a podcast: "Dating is where we present our best selves. Vulnerability is the opposite. Where we risk our partner knowing things that are imperfect. This is the way to forge the life partner bond." Sept 10, 2024 19:17:03 GMT -5

week5of35years: My Wife had 30 free mins before she had to start work this AM... I said.. "lets have a quick shag" and she said she was going to walk the dog instead.... Still work to do.... Sept 17, 2024 3:51:34 GMT -5

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Hi to all my EP/ILSM friends!

Post by sodone1492 on Jan 24, 2017 0:25:23 GMT -5

Post by bballgirl on Jan 24, 2017 9:57:05 GMT -5

Post by solodriver on Jan 24, 2017 13:46:37 GMT -5

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Post by ModCasper on Jan 25, 2017 13:41:24 GMT -5

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