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Post by nancyb on Feb 12, 2017 9:23:25 GMT -5
I met man in the summer while my marriage blew apart. He was the neighbour of friends I was staying with so he was over a lot. Coincidently his marriage was over at he same time as mine. We saw each other at the worse times and established a connection. I had a call from him out of the blue last week inviting my to his house for dinner. Trouble is he lives close to 2.5 hrs away in the middle of no where. I am going and have invited myself to stay the night. There are no local motels. LOL I asked in a very innocent way. Now I'm nervous out of my mind. What's the proper protocol. Its February in the frozen north not exactly negligee weather. I want to make a good impression.  |
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 12, 2017 11:27:47 GMT -5
I met man in the summer while my marriage blew apart. He was the neighbour of friends I was staying with so he was over a lot. Coincidently his marriage was over at he same time as mine. We saw each other at the worse times and established a connection. I had a call from him out of the blue last week inviting my to his house for dinner. Trouble is he lives close to 2.5 hrs away in the middle of no where. I am going and have invited myself to stay the night. There are no local motels. LOL I asked in a very innocent way. Now I'm nervous out of my mind. What's the proper protocol. Its February in the frozen north not exactly negligee weather. I want to make a good impression. Wear a negligee, or whatever makes YOU feel sexy. A sexy bra and panties too! |
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Post by cc on Feb 18, 2017 17:45:09 GMT -5
She sounds delightful, GC.
I don't know that I can even venture into a new relationship...that scares me. You know, burned, and scared crapless that it will happen again.
I am proud of your bravery and your ability to think and process these thoughts, feelings, and instincts. I wish you all the best, the very best. Your stepping out into a new world and you are wiser. I know it will help.
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Post by greatcoastal on Feb 18, 2017 18:00:58 GMT -5
She sounds delightful, GC. I don't know that I can even venture into a new relationship...that scares me. You know, burned, and scared crapless that it will happen again. I am proud of your bravery and your ability to think and process these thoughts, feelings, and instincts. I wish you all the best, the very best. Your stepping out into a new world and you are wiser. I know it will help. Several weeks have gone by and i haven't seen her again. I asked the pastor's wife if she came to the ladies group. She said, "I looked for her and I might have missed her." Even if she never comes back there will be someone, I could certainly use more time to get my act together. Finish the divorce buy my own house, start a new job. My mind certainly wants some female friends to talk things out with. Others who have gone through a recent divorce, and way better would be finding others who endured the SM. While I can't deny the thought of intimacy again is scary and exciting at the same time. To many Fri. and Sat. I stay home thinking, "am I going to have to visit bars?" "How out of place will I feel?" As much as I know that most of what I worry about doesn't happen, and that I merely need to be concerned. I remember the old saying, "patience comes from enduring tribulations". That's why I don't pray for patience. Yet I know I need it!! |
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Post by cc on Feb 18, 2017 18:05:22 GMT -5
Yes, do not pray for patience! LOL He will give you some lessons.
For me, right now, it is get moved, settle the kids, get oldest settled into adult life, college, etc. It will help to have my family to fill up lonely hours.
I think that is a great way to move forward...just keep ticking off the list of major needs.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 22, 2017 16:32:19 GMT -5
I met man in the summer while my marriage blew apart. He was the neighbour of friends I was staying with so he was over a lot. Coincidently his marriage was over at he same time as mine. We saw each other at the worse times and established a connection. I had a call from him out of the blue last week inviting my to his house for dinner. Trouble is he lives close to 2.5 hrs away in the middle of no where. I am going and have invited myself to stay the night. There are no local motels. LOL I asked in a very innocent way. Now I'm nervous out of my mind. What's the proper protocol. Its February in the frozen north not exactly negligee weather. I want to make a good impression. You are so silly. Don't wear anything to bed! |
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