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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 12, 2017 16:53:53 GMT -5
So, when I got married at 19, it was my first relationship. I knew nothing of men. Only the stereotypes. Oh boy. And if I mentioned how his behavior was kind of sneaky he would automatically accuse me of adultery.
So now, looking back, I see how sneaky he was and how horrible he was, financially.
He lied about being able to afford a wife. He has more or less lied about finances from the very beginning.
I am sooo incredibly angry right now. We are low income but he doesn't try to get assistence with things we can use. We are low on money but he's buying himself religious rings. All these financial decisions - he has made them on his own. And he is HORRIBLE at financial stuff. OMG
right now I'm going to try and find a better way, while he is trying to find a job. Ughhh
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 12, 2017 17:00:34 GMT -5
Geez I would have provided that man a slow death by arsenic.
Focus on yourself and try to figure a way out.
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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 12, 2017 17:09:29 GMT -5
I'm trying. i just found out and I'm still so angry.
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Post by baza on Jan 12, 2017 21:20:42 GMT -5
He's a real prize this bloke.
Over your run of stories he's been a part time terrorist, a religious zealot, an extensive solo traveller, a womaniser, abusive, violent, a financial leech, hopeless parent, sexual avoidant and overall, pretty much a useless cunt.
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Post by lyn on Jan 12, 2017 21:36:11 GMT -5
So, when I got married at 19, it was my first relationship. I knew nothing of men. Only the stereotypes. Oh boy. And if I mentioned how his behavior was kind of sneaky he would automatically accuse me of adultery. So now, looking back, I see how sneaky he was and how horrible he was, financially. He lied about being able to afford a wife. He has more or less lied about finances from the very beginning. I am sooo incredibly angry right now. We are low income but he doesn't try to get assistence with things we can use. We are low on money but he's buying himself religious rings. All these financial decisions - he has made them on his own. And he is HORRIBLE at financial stuff. OMG right now I'm going to try and find a better way, while he is trying to find a job. Ughhh Aw honey - I can't even imagine what your situation must be like on a daily basis - so much more than "just" sexlessness. It seems that you would be better off financially WITHOUT him. There are many programs set up that would help you a great deal what with having little ones. Please look ahead - you can be happy one day. Also, above all else, please be safe. {{hugs}} |
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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 13, 2017 16:23:17 GMT -5
well my little ones aren't so little and it can be difficult to handle them on a daily basis. they all have autism. 3 different levels and 3 different needs. and change disrupts them a lot. We live in a spacious 4 bedroom and this is the only place where my son is calmer because of all the space. in a smaller space, my sone is 3x worse than he is now.
so that is part of my staying.
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Post by Cass on Jan 13, 2017 16:31:16 GMT -5
So, when I got married at 19, it was my first relationship. I knew nothing of men. Only the stereotypes. Oh boy. And if I mentioned how his behavior was kind of sneaky he would automatically accuse me of adultery. So now, looking back, I see how sneaky he was and how horrible he was, financially. He lied about being able to afford a wife. He has more or less lied about finances from the very beginning. I am sooo incredibly angry right now. We are low income but he doesn't try to get assistence with things we can use. We are low on money but he's buying himself religious rings. All these financial decisions - he has made them on his own. And he is HORRIBLE at financial stuff. OMG right now I'm going to try and find a better way, while he is trying to find a job. Ughhh Oh man, I feel for you. Keep your head up, you will find a way. |
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Post by nancyb on Jan 13, 2017 17:22:12 GMT -5
well my little ones aren't so little and it can be difficult to handle them on a daily basis. they all have autism. 3 different levels and 3 different needs. and change disrupts them a lot. We live in a spacious 4 bedroom and this is the only place where my son is calmer because of all the space. in a smaller space, my sone is 3x worse than he is now. so that is part of my staying. I'm sending positive energy your way darktippedrose. It doesn't sound like you have a very easy life. xo |
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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 17, 2017 17:14:03 GMT -5
no its not. I'm slowly finding a way but i know its gonna take months ughhh
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