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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 9, 2017 12:19:17 GMT -5
No one appreciates an attractive young woman more than an older man....Bwahahaha... Not always a case... My husband 14 years older ..I naively thought I am a lucky one to feel forever young for him... His appreciation stopped one year after our wedding... Not always, i am sad to say. But often ... |
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 9, 2017 12:22:26 GMT -5
Why bother with the mundane stuff Like getting a divorce. Time wasting etc.... I would get on the internet buy a round the world ticket, take off and probably die within a year in some ridiculous fashion and will live on for ever more in a YouTube video - man drowned to death by a gang of squirting hookers Great answer!! |
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Post by thefullmoon on Jan 9, 2017 12:30:44 GMT -5
Not always a case... My husband 14 years older ..I naively thought I am a lucky one to feel forever young for him... His appreciation stopped one year after our wedding... Not always, i am sad to say. But often ... Oh..yes..the chances are high...☺ |
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Post by cagedtiger on Jan 9, 2017 12:42:49 GMT -5
Why bother with the mundane stuff Like getting a divorce. Time wasting etc.... I would get on the internet buy a round the world ticket, take off and probably die within a year in some ridiculous fashion and will live on for ever more in a YouTube video - man drowned to death by a gang of squirting hookers I've always joked about how I'll end up dying young-ish in some hilarious, but awesome accident in that same sort of vein. Going back to the original post, I've been asking myself this same question for the last week or so, a lot. The wife has claimed repeatedly that she's all better mentally and emotionally now that she's come off her birth control, and that she wants to do all the things I want to do, and is feeling super affectionate and had a sex drive again. I still don't fully trust it, and honestly, for where I really want to end up long term, I still don't see our goals fully meshing. Especially when / if I decide to enter the public sector. |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 9, 2017 12:47:39 GMT -5
Why bother with the mundane stuff Like getting a divorce. Time wasting etc.... I would get on the internet buy a round the world ticket, take off and probably die within a year in some ridiculous fashion and will live on for ever more in a YouTube video - man drowned to death by a gang of squirting hookers I've always joked about how I'll end up dying young-ish in some hilarious, but awesome accident in that same sort of vein. Going back to the original post, I've been asking myself this same question for the last week or so, a lot. The wife has claimed repeatedly that she's all better mentally and emotionally now that she's come off her birth control, and that she wants to do all the things I want to do, and is feeling super affectionate and had a sex drive again. I still don't fully trust it, and honestly, for where I really want to end up long term, I still don't see our goals fully meshing. Especially when / if I decide to enter the public sector. There is much to be said for willingness - not everything, but much to be said ... |
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 9, 2017 13:07:21 GMT -5
Why bother with the mundane stuff Like getting a divorce. Time wasting etc.... I would get on the internet buy a round the world ticket, take off and probably die within a year in some ridiculous fashion and will live on for ever more in a YouTube video - man drowned to death by a gang of squirting hookers I've always joked about how I'll end up dying young-ish in some hilarious, but awesome accident in that same sort of vein. Going back to the original post, I've been asking myself this same question for the last week or so, a lot. The wife has claimed repeatedly that she's all better mentally and emotionally now that she's come off her birth control, and that she wants to do all the things I want to do, and is feeling super affectionate and had a sex drive again. I still don't fully trust it, and honestly, for where I really want to end up long term, I still don't see our goals fully meshing. Especially when / if I decide to enter the public sector. I have heard that the birth control pill can kill a sex drive, it never did mine but I know for a fact that it can. Now that she is off of the pill I would caution you to protect against pregnancy if you do give her another chance to prove that she wants to share her sexuality with you. On the other side of the coin, a relationship is not about just sex so if you really aren't enjoying each other's company outside of the bedroom then what's the point in taking it to the bedroom? |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2017 13:22:24 GMT -5
Why bother with the mundane stuff Like getting a divorce. Time wasting etc.... I would get on the internet buy a round the world ticket, take off and probably die within a year in some ridiculous fashion and will live on for ever more in a YouTube video - man drowned to death by a gang of squirting hookers I've always joked about how I'll end up dying young-ish in some hilarious, but awesome accident in that same sort of vein. Going back to the original post, I've been asking myself this same question for the last week or so, a lot. The wife has claimed repeatedly that she's all better mentally and emotionally now that she's come off her birth control, and that she wants to do all the things I want to do, and is feeling super affectionate and had a sex drive again. I still don't fully trust it, and honestly, for where I really want to end up long term, I still don't see our goals fully meshing. Especially when / if I decide to enter the public sector. Sounds like a baby trap? |
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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 9, 2017 13:26:56 GMT -5
No one appreciates an attractive young woman more than an older man....Bwahahaha... Not always a case... My husband 14 years older ..I naively thought I am a lucky one to feel forever young for him... His appreciation stopped one year after our wedding... Then let me reword my earlier statement into something that is the case...no one appreciates an attractive woman more than this older man.......Bwahahaha.... |
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Post by cagedtiger on Jan 9, 2017 14:05:53 GMT -5
I've always joked about how I'll end up dying young-ish in some hilarious, but awesome accident in that same sort of vein. Going back to the original post, I've been asking myself this same question for the last week or so, a lot. The wife has claimed repeatedly that she's all better mentally and emotionally now that she's come off her birth control, and that she wants to do all the things I want to do, and is feeling super affectionate and had a sex drive again. I still don't fully trust it, and honestly, for where I really want to end up long term, I still don't see our goals fully meshing. Especially when / if I decide to enter the public sector. Sounds like a baby trap? That thought has crossed my mind. More than once. Fortunately, even with her newfound sex drive, she's not been initiating sex, because she "doesn't feel like I love her," and honestly, I'm just not feeling attracted to her. |
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 9, 2017 14:23:54 GMT -5
That thought has crossed my mind. More than once. Fortunately, even with her newfound sex drive, she's not been initiating sex, because she "doesn't feel like I love her," and honestly, I'm just not feeling attracted to her. That word "fortunately" is very telling. So are you done? Or are you still going to try to see where the marriage goes? |
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Post by DryCreek on Jan 9, 2017 19:27:49 GMT -5
That thought has crossed my mind. More than once. Fortunately, even with her newfound sex drive, she's not been initiating sex, because she "doesn't feel like I love her," and honestly, I'm just not feeling attracted to her. There's no hiding that I've been pessimistic about your situation's outlook: I would suggest wishing her good fortune with a fresh start and a new guy; the current one is spent. You've wasted enough of your life by being patient / tolerant. Your odds of success are far better elsewhere. For argument's sake, let's agree that her sex drive was legitimately killed by her birth control. That doesn't change the fact that she refused to address it for over a year. Plus all the obstacles with behavior, counseling refusal, meltdowns, etc. You carried the ball far enough. |
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Post by lew on Jan 9, 2017 20:10:02 GMT -5
That is a tough one. Two years would put me in the sell it all, split the income, and travel. Hopefully I could find a lady to come along. One who loves sleeping naked and skinny dipping. She would have to have a good sense of humor and enjoy smiling a lot. We could live our adventure one day at a time and enjoy every second.
Ten years requires a little more thought..... but I might die tonight, so maybe it is time to look real hard at that two year window.
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Post by pfviento on Jan 9, 2017 20:10:10 GMT -5
That thought has crossed my mind. More than once. Fortunately, even with her newfound sex drive, she's not been initiating sex, because she "doesn't feel like I love her," and honestly, I'm just not feeling attracted to her. The ship is about to run aground but she isn't committed on making any real course changes. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Jan 9, 2017 20:26:03 GMT -5
That thought has crossed my mind. More than once. Fortunately, even with her newfound sex drive, she's not been initiating sex, because she "doesn't feel like I love her," and honestly, I'm just not feeling attracted to her. More DARVO. Reversed, making her the victim, and you the offender. |
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Post by snowman12345 on Jan 9, 2017 20:39:53 GMT -5
As to whether I would go or stay is a decision I have already made.
As to how I kick the bucket - I really like @thecelt scenario. More than likely I will trip over the dog and fall down the cellar stairs.
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