Pick a fight - start an argument
Jan 3, 2017 0:45:32 GMT -5
thefullmoon, DryCreek, and 3 more like this
Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2017 0:45:32 GMT -5
You are only going to give your daughter a bad example of what a marriage looks like by staying.
I was angry when I first came on here. I thought about cheating but instead turned it on my wife. I did not want to hear Baza's advice but I needed to take it. Cheating is not a fix and only prolongs the misery. You still have to go home and be with the wife. It might as well be a good relationship instead of just existing. If you have no choice and the wife does not care then go cheat but realize she'll still be at home when you get back from your mistress.
I'm glad that I did not cheat. I faced the wife and things are changing in my relationship. I'm not sure if I'll stay. My mind is still not made up but I'm getting sex again, which helps. I'm also carrying my head higher now days. I was becoming a shell of the man that I was when I first got married. Sexless marriages drain the life out of you. They poison you slowly.
Also, if I do decide to leave and I've been caught cheating there goes my alimony support. My wife holds the financial purse strings in the house. In my state there is spousal alimony which I can get, since I've forgone my earning potential raising our children. It's good to go and talk to an attorney. You'll know more your options.
The day I decide that I need to cheat is the day that I file for divorce. Life is too short to be in a miserable marriage. I have news for you. Your wife is not going to change until you demand a change in her. Begin working on yourself. Start taking good care of your health and find yourself a hobby and get out of the house.
I was angry when I first came on here. I thought about cheating but instead turned it on my wife. I did not want to hear Baza's advice but I needed to take it. Cheating is not a fix and only prolongs the misery. You still have to go home and be with the wife. It might as well be a good relationship instead of just existing. If you have no choice and the wife does not care then go cheat but realize she'll still be at home when you get back from your mistress.
I'm glad that I did not cheat. I faced the wife and things are changing in my relationship. I'm not sure if I'll stay. My mind is still not made up but I'm getting sex again, which helps. I'm also carrying my head higher now days. I was becoming a shell of the man that I was when I first got married. Sexless marriages drain the life out of you. They poison you slowly.
Also, if I do decide to leave and I've been caught cheating there goes my alimony support. My wife holds the financial purse strings in the house. In my state there is spousal alimony which I can get, since I've forgone my earning potential raising our children. It's good to go and talk to an attorney. You'll know more your options.
The day I decide that I need to cheat is the day that I file for divorce. Life is too short to be in a miserable marriage. I have news for you. Your wife is not going to change until you demand a change in her. Begin working on yourself. Start taking good care of your health and find yourself a hobby and get out of the house.
