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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 23, 2016 20:25:28 GMT -5
Yeah, she's blocked you from all her on-line accounts, etc. Paranoid? Maybe, but just because you're paranoid doesn't mean something isn't hinky. She only unfriended me from Facebook? I don't have accounts for Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, etc, and I certainly didn't know she had those accounts either. Wait until the divorce, when she is subpoena to produce 3 yrs of bank statements. Then you discover un- known bank accounts in her name only. While she is busy twittering, skyping, fakebooking all her minions, about how she could NEVER trust you! (voice of experience) |
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 23, 2016 20:56:41 GMT -5
Presumably then, "someone" has been "trying to hack into all of (her) accounts for several weeks" - or - her whole premise is bullshit. - The truth is invariably one of the first casualties in ILIASM deals. - I dunno what your missus might be up to Brother JD. All you can say with any certainty is that she's pinged you off her facebook access. "Why" she has done so can only be speculated upon. If it is some sinister motive, you'll find out soon enough. The whole premise is definitely bullshit and she is up to something. She uses the same password for every site, and I've known her password for years, but I have NEVER ONCE used it nor would I ever. She always gets a bit wacky around the holidays. Actually, she gets weird every year from November 1 - March 1, but it seems to be getting worse every year. Glad I won't have to deal with it this time next year! |
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 23, 2016 21:03:20 GMT -5
She only unfriended me from Facebook? I don't have accounts for Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, etc, and I certainly didn't know she had those accounts either. Wait until the divorce, when she is subpoena to produce 3 yrs of bank statements. Then you discover un- known bank accounts in her name only. While she is busy twittering, skyping, fakebooking all her minions, about how she could NEVER trust you! (voice of experience) No, she isn't good with money. Well, she is good at spending it, I'll give her that much. |
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Post by shamwow on Dec 23, 2016 23:38:24 GMT -5
Yeah, she's blocked you from all her on-line accounts, etc. Paranoid? Maybe, but just because you're paranoid doesn't mean something isn't hinky. She only unfriended me from Facebook? I don't have accounts for Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, etc, and I certainly didn't know she had those accounts either. Perhaps the most bizarre claim she made was when she tried explaining the weird behavior she was experiencing that led to her suspicions. She said "Each time I opened these apps, the icon would wiggle and say it was initializing as if someone was logged in on the other end! And that someone was you!" When I explained to her that 1 billion user account and passwords had been stolen from Yahoo, her primary email service, she immediately scoffed at the idea of a hacker wanting to break into her accounts. Yet claiming to be an open book, she thinks I have some reason to do so. Little does she know I'm working towards getting her out of my life. She could be fucking Trump and I couldn't care less at this point. "The icon would wiggle?" I'm an IT guy and have no idea what the hell that means. Sounds more like she's trying to wiggle out of something. |
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 24, 2016 0:25:10 GMT -5
She only unfriended me from Facebook? I don't have accounts for Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, etc, and I certainly didn't know she had those accounts either. Perhaps the most bizarre claim she made was when she tried explaining the weird behavior she was experiencing that led to her suspicions. She said "Each time I opened these apps, the icon would wiggle and say it was initializing as if someone was logged in on the other end! And that someone was you!" When I explained to her that 1 billion user account and passwords had been stolen from Yahoo, her primary email service, she immediately scoffed at the idea of a hacker wanting to break into her accounts. Yet claiming to be an open book, she thinks I have some reason to do so. Little does she know I'm working towards getting her out of my life. She could be fucking Trump and I couldn't care less at this point. "The icon would wiggle?" I'm an IT guy and have no idea what the hell that means. Sounds more like she's trying to wiggle out of something. Exactly! I asked her to show me. So she clicked on the Facebook app, but it opened as one would expect. So I calmly asked her to close the app and try again, which results in the same expected behavior. When I asked her to try it a third time, she got aggravated and said "Well, of course it won't do that now because you are sitting here and you are not logged into my account!" I honestly don't know why I even care what she thinks at this point. However, she is telling her girlfriends, many of which are mutual friends and I care a great deal about my reputation. I have been a good and faithful husband for 25+ years, and stand to lose a lot of friends as a result of her actions, and she doesn't even know that I am planning to move forward without her. God help me when she finds out! |
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Post by DryCreek on Dec 24, 2016 0:53:55 GMT -5
"The icon would wiggle?" I'm an IT guy and have no idea what the hell that means. Sounds more like she's trying to wiggle out of something. Exactly! I asked her to show me. So she clicked on the Facebook app, but it opened as one would expect. So I calmly asked her to close the app and try again, which results in the same expected behavior. When I asked her to try it a third time, she got aggravated and said "Well, of course it won't do that now because you are sitting here and you are not logged into my account!" Um, wow. JonDoe, can I presume she's using an Apple device (iPhone/iPad)? Press and hold *any* icon on the screen and it'll go into edit mode. All the icons wiggle, you can drag them around the screen, and you can delete them. I'd recommend exercising the delete option, but that might have consequences. Tap the home button to exit the mode. All without voodoo. |
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 24, 2016 11:49:20 GMT -5
Exactly! I asked her to show me. So she clicked on the Facebook app, but it opened as one would expect. So I calmly asked her to close the app and try again, which results in the same expected behavior. When I asked her to try it a third time, she got aggravated and said "Well, of course it won't do that now because you are sitting here and you are not logged into my account!" Um, wow. JonDoe , can I presume she's using an Apple device (iPhone/iPad)? Press and hold *any* icon on the screen and it'll go into edit mode. All the icons wiggle, you can drag them around the screen, and you can delete them. I'd recommend exercising the delete option, but that might have consequences. Tap the home button to exit the mode. All without voodoo. Yes, she is using an iPhone. When I suggested the same thing regarding the icon wiggling, she said "I'm not stupid! I know how to delete apps! This was a different wiggle!" Then she threw her phone at me. SMH!  |
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Post by bballgirl on Dec 24, 2016 11:55:38 GMT -5
Facebook kind of pisses me off in that it allows you to put on a pulic face to the world that has no bearing on reality. For example. My wife has not uttered the words I love you since Bush's first term but on our aanniversary on Facebookit is all I love you so much for outside consumption. That's part of the reason I only check my account a few times per year. Yep! FB is Bullshit! Don't get me wrong I enjoy it but I never put up fake testaments to the love in my marriage. In fact when the divorce came public my aunt said to me she wondered if I wasn't so happy because I never posted anything about my H. I pretty much stick to recipes and funny memes. |
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Post by bballgirl on Dec 24, 2016 11:59:01 GMT -5
JonDoe it's very telling that she deleted you as a friend. Total bullshit! That gets me angry. Married couples do that after a divorce. It's just not normal. Focus on yourself and work on getting rid of her.
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Post by rejected101 on Jan 22, 2017 20:17:30 GMT -5
Sounds like she is having an affair to me.
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Post by baza on Jan 22, 2017 20:27:40 GMT -5
Brother Jon's activity suggests he hasn't been on here for a few weeks.
So mebbe that fb delete was an indicator of something seriously amiss, that he has now discovered.
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Post by Apocrypha on Jan 22, 2017 20:41:08 GMT -5
Classic projection. She's having an affair.
You should have seen the shit Mrs. Apocrypha accused me of when she was tasting the rainbow.
Possible the affair blew up and she was threatened with exposure. This might be her covering her tracks to minimize methods by which her partner can contact her husband.
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