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Post by JonDoe on Dec 23, 2016 16:23:41 GMT -5
A few nights ago, I heard my STBX ask a friend if she saw the pictures she posted of our son on Facebook. She hadn't mentioned the pictures to me so I decided to check them out. Oddly, I didn't see any posts from her. When I went to check her page, I couldn't access it and she was no longer listed on my Friends page. WTF?
When I asked her if she unfriended me, she said "Yes, I unfriended you because I am pissed off that you have been trying to hack into all of my accounts!" I said "Wait? What? We have lived together for 25+ years and I won't even go in your purse if you ask me to, and suddenly you think I'm trying to hack into your accounts? WTF?"
She said "Yes! You've been trying to hack into all of my accounts for several weeks and as soon as I unfriended you the weird behavior stopped!" Then she proceeded to list all of the accounts including Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, bank accounts, etc. WTF?
Regardless of what I said, she vehemently defended her position that I was lying. Then I asked what she thought I had to gain by breaking into her accounts and she said "Nothing, because I am an open book." Then she called me paranoid. WTF?
This morning she made me breakfast. A little while later she came over to tell me that she was going to the grocery store, leaned down and gave me a kiss, and said "I'll see you in a little bit." Her demeanor all day has been as if nothing is wrong. WTF?
I've known this woman more than half of my life, and I still can't figure her out! WTF?
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Post by Rhapsodee on Dec 23, 2016 16:30:33 GMT -5
Could she be having an emotional affair with someone on facebook?
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Post by csl on Dec 23, 2016 16:33:03 GMT -5
Yeah, she's blocked you from all her on-line accounts, etc. Paranoid? Maybe, but just because you're paranoid doesn't mean something isn't hinky.
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Post by obobfla on Dec 23, 2016 16:41:31 GMT -5
Could she be having an emotional affair with someone on facebook? I think this is a strong possibility. |
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 23, 2016 16:43:38 GMT -5
Yeah, she's blocked you from all her on-line accounts, etc. Paranoid? Maybe, but just because you're paranoid doesn't mean something isn't hinky. She only unfriended me from Facebook? I don't have accounts for Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, etc, and I certainly didn't know she had those accounts either. Perhaps the most bizarre claim she made was when she tried explaining the weird behavior she was experiencing that led to her suspicions. She said "Each time I opened these apps, the icon would wiggle and say it was initializing as if someone was logged in on the other end! And that someone was you!" When I explained to her that 1 billion user account and passwords had been stolen from Yahoo, her primary email service, she immediately scoffed at the idea of a hacker wanting to break into her accounts. Yet claiming to be an open book, she thinks I have some reason to do so. Little does she know I'm working towards getting her out of my life. She could be fucking Trump and I couldn't care less at this point. |
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 23, 2016 16:45:32 GMT -5
Could she be having an emotional affair with someone on facebook? As she likes to say "Anything is possible!", but I honestly couldn't care less at this point. |
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Post by solodriver on Dec 23, 2016 16:48:11 GMT -5
Yeah, she's blocked you from all her on-line accounts, etc. Paranoid? Maybe, but just because you're paranoid doesn't mean something isn't hinky. She only unfriended me from Facebook? I don't have accounts for Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, etc, and I certainly didn't know she had those accounts either. Perhaps the most bizarre claim she made was when she tried explaining the weird behavior she was experiencing that led to her suspicions. She said "Each time I opened these apps, the icon would wiggle and say it was initializing as if someone was logged in on the other end! And that someone was you!" When I explained to her that 1 billion user account and passwords had been stolen from Yahoo, her primary email service, she immediately scoffed at the idea of a hacker wanting to break into her accounts. Yet claiming to be an open book, she thinks I have some reason to do so. Little does she know I'm working towards getting her out of my life. She could be fucking Trump and I couldn't care less at this point. "fucking Trump" that would be enough for me lol!
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Post by thebaffledking on Dec 23, 2016 18:05:17 GMT -5
JonDoe...........you're staring down the barrel of some serious crazytalk. I hope freedom finds you soon!
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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 23, 2016 18:15:43 GMT -5
This may answer a few things about her behavior, her fakebook world.
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Post by nancyb on Dec 23, 2016 18:15:44 GMT -5
JonDoe...whatever is going on it's messing with your mind. Take care and review your exit plan. You may need it sooner than you think.
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Post by ggold on Dec 23, 2016 18:23:20 GMT -5
JonDoe Good God!!! WTF is right!! I completely get not being able to figure out someone you have known for over 20 years!! UGH!!!!!
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Post by greatcoastal on Dec 23, 2016 18:29:34 GMT -5
Sadly I can relate, on a different level. My STBX designs computer equipment. I brought this to the attention of our therapist in front of her. All our children's computers and phones have parental controls, and are monitered 24/7. The day I sat down and started looking at these pie charts and graphs what do I notice? There's one for me too! Was there one for her phone and computer use? NO! When asked about this, she just shrugged her shoulders, "like, so what?"
I then insisted that I have access to all her emails. I found a few interesting emails sent from her sister about detachment. That lasted about a month. She changed her email address and passwords, (lots of passwords)
Stopped going to counselling, started doing all her email, and phone use at work on her office computer.
All evidence in my case with my therapist and my attorney, if needed.
More concrete evidence of a manipulative controller.
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Post by JonDoe on Dec 23, 2016 18:31:35 GMT -5
greatcoastal I've only watched the first part about Robin Williams, but "WOW!" I had no idea about his personal situation. If true, this is yet another " shining" example of how screwed up the legal system is with regards to divorce and permanent alimony.
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Post by shamwow on Dec 23, 2016 18:45:19 GMT -5
Facebook kind of pisses me off in that it allows you to put on a pulic face to the world that has no bearing on reality. For example. My wife has not uttered the words I love you since Bush's first term but on our aanniversary on Facebookit is all I love you so much for outside consumption. That's part of the reason I only check my account a few times per year.
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Post by baza on Dec 23, 2016 20:24:42 GMT -5
Presumably then, "someone" has been "trying to hack into all of (her) accounts for several weeks" - or - her whole premise is bullshit.
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The truth is invariably one of the first casualties in ILIASM deals.
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I dunno what your missus might be up to Brother JD.
All you can say with any certainty is that she's pinged you off her facebook access.
"Why" she has done so can only be speculated upon.
If it is some sinister motive, you'll find out soon enough.
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