Monday Thought for the Day

cagedtiger Senior Members Posts: 1,936 Age Range: 31-35	Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 9:33:28 GMT -5 via Tapatalk thefullmoon, GeekGoddess, and 8 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cagedtiger on Dec 19, 2016 9:33:28 GMT -5

bballgirl Senior Members Posts: 3,462	Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 9:43:37 GMT -5 via mobile GeekGoddess likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bballgirl on Dec 19, 2016 9:43:37 GMT -5 I screenshotted that to my phone last week. So true!

greatcoastal Senior Members Thanks for the Birthday wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D dance with the ladies! Posts: 6,727 Age Range: 56-60	Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 9:52:09 GMT -5 tamara68 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greatcoastal on Dec 19, 2016 9:52:09 GMT -5 This seemed "appropriate".
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joy6016 Full Member Posts: 153	Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 9:52:27 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by joy6016 on Dec 19, 2016 9:52:27 GMT -5 Love this! So true.

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Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 11:40:31 GMT -5 via Tapatalk thefullmoon, GeekGoddess, and 4 more like this

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As I navigated through the bedroom, hallway, kitchen, and living room between scattered stacks of boxes, random things I didn't even know we had, and things I thought we'd thrown away months ago, i began to ask myself if it was possible that I bring out the worst in her. Then I saw that on my Facebook wall, posted by a friend who just finalized her own divorce.

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Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 12:23:34 GMT -5 tamara68, novembercomingfire, and 2 more like this

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Dec 19, 2016 11:40:31 GMT -5 cagedtiger said:

As I navigated through the bedroom, hallway, kitchen, and living room between scattered stacks of boxes, random things I didn't even know we had, and things I thought we'd thrown away months ago, i began to ask myself if it was possible that I bring out the worst in her. Then I saw that on my Facebook wall, posted by a friend who just finalized her own divorce.

Dismount that white horse for the good of your own mind. Its way past time for her to put on her big girl britches!

She doesn't get to play by a different set of rules. Hold her accountable. The only way she keeps this power is because YOU let her.

Those days are coming to an end.!!

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Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 14:38:22 GMT -5 via Tapatalk bballgirl and eternaloptimism like this

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Dec 19, 2016 12:23:34 GMT -5 greatcoastal said:

Dec 19, 2016 11:40:31 GMT -5 cagedtiger said:

As I navigated through the bedroom, hallway, kitchen, and living room between scattered stacks of boxes, random things I didn't even know we had, and things I thought we'd thrown away months ago, i began to ask myself if it was possible that I bring out the worst in her. Then I saw that on my Facebook wall, posted by a friend who just finalized her own divorce.

Dismount that white horse for the good of your own mind. Its way past time for her to put on her big girl britches!

She doesn't get to play by a different set of rules. Hold her accountable. The only way she keeps this power is because YOU let her.

Those days are coming to an end.!!

When I do, she melts down and gets all apologetic, and angry, and vengeful, and accuses me of bringing up old things and judging her. Then i have to go elsewhere to not have to be around her while she sulks.

January is coming.

tamara68 Senior Members If it can't get worse, it can only get better Posts: 2,524 Age Range: 46-50	Monday Thought for the Day Dec 19, 2016 15:54:14 GMT -5 GeekGoddess, DryCreek, and 6 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by tamara68 on Dec 19, 2016 15:54:14 GMT -5 another thought for Monday (and the rest of the week)

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Monday Thought for the Day Dec 21, 2016 12:36:22 GMT -5 tamara68 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Dec 21, 2016 12:36:22 GMT -5 the reason so many of us are here is because we dont know what will happen if we let go. We dont know where we will land, but know where we are and have learned to accept it.

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Monday Thought for the Day Dec 21, 2016 13:24:34 GMT -5 via mobile DryCreek and cagedtiger like this

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Dec 21, 2016 12:36:22 GMT -5 @lostsoul said:

the reason so many of us are here is because we dont know what will happen if we let go. We dont know where we will land, but know where we are and have learned to accept it.

Not really accept it otherwise we wouldn't be complaining here. Have tried to accept it but gradually realizing that it is not acceptable is maybe more accurate.