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Post by nancyb on Nov 29, 2016 5:50:06 GMT -5
I used to think the 'why' mattered a lot because I felt if I could just get to the root cause then maybe 'we' could take steps to rectify the SM...turns out I was the only one who really wanted things to change and when the pressure got be too great he took the easy road and buggered off. Now I think i wastes a lot of brain power trying to solve someone else's problem.
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Post by Lithium92 on Nov 29, 2016 6:28:20 GMT -5
It depends on what the 'why' is - it could've been something that could be worked on, but the only way to find out is take that time and effort in the first place.
Otherwise, you could be walking away from a good relationship which only needed a bit of time and coaxing to get the refuser to get ED treatment from their GP, for instance.
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Post by beachguy on Dec 1, 2016 13:28:31 GMT -5
It depends on what the 'why' is - it could've been something that could be worked on, but the only way to find out is take that time and effort in the first place. Otherwise, you could be walking away from a good relationship which only needed a bit of time and coaxing to get the refuser to get ED treatment from their GP, for instance. There are a million guys that had an ED problem, wanted to solve it, and solved it. Their wives dont post here. They're too busy getting laid to post here. There is only so much time anyone, male or female, deserves. And in most or all cases, that time long expired before their refused spouses got here. |
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Post by Lithium92 on Dec 1, 2016 13:45:05 GMT -5
I agree. But my point still stands (even if theirs doesn't).
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Post by beachguy on Dec 1, 2016 14:28:35 GMT -5
I agree. But my point still stands (even if theirs doesn't). But can you point to any examples where a guy, after refusing ED treatment for years, has a magic epiphany and his spouse fucked happily ever after? I've yet to find one (and that pretty much goes both ways, gender wise |
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Post by DryCreek on Dec 1, 2016 19:08:45 GMT -5
My hub says I'm like a seventeen year old boy ever since I went into menopause. He avoids me because he doesn't want to "get me going." OMG, how anyone could think this is a bad thing!!! |
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Post by solodriver on Dec 2, 2016 1:11:02 GMT -5
My hub says I'm like a seventeen year old boy ever since I went into menopause. He avoids me because he doesn't want to "get me going." OMG, how anyone could think this is a bad thing!!! Only a refuser would. |
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Post by solodriver on Dec 2, 2016 1:19:25 GMT -5
My hub says I'm like a seventeen year old boy ever since I went into menopause. He avoids me because he doesn't want to "get me going." Lately, I'm as horny as I was when I was 17. 
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Post by solodriver on Dec 4, 2016 2:15:02 GMT -5
Lately, I'm as horny as I was when I was 17.
That's amazing Solo! Amazing, but very true Lexus. And I hope it doesn't stop for a long time. |
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