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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2016 11:39:05 GMT -5
This thread is about what causes your SO to change his or her personality towards you.
Right now I am enjoying the 'good wife' personality my wife has and it has been going on for about a week. Her sister and my brother-in-law are coming over (from Scottsdale to San Diego) for Thanksgiving and staying the weekend and the wife wants to pretend everything is hunky-dory and we have a great relationship. This personality change of course does not include sex. She cares more about what other people think than what I think.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Nov 21, 2016 11:50:30 GMT -5
The presence of her immediate family members will cause an escalation of criticism and mocking. She is emboldened to openly attempt to emasculate me in any capacity in which she can find an opening.
Any perception of any personal shortcoming of mine that offends her in some way (and I apparently have an endless reservoir of these upon which she may draw) will lead to a combination of silent treatment/sneering/open ridicule.
Asking for sex and/or complaints about lacking sex on my part will lead to hysterical crying fits about how horrible and cruel that I am to her.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Nov 21, 2016 11:53:26 GMT -5
Oh wait, you said "change her personality." I guess an escalation from ordinary neglect to viciousness is a change ...
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Post by greatcoastal on Nov 21, 2016 12:05:24 GMT -5
The presence of her immediate family members will cause an escalation of criticism and mocking. She is emboldened to openly attempt to emasculate me in any capacity in which she can find an opening. Any perception of any personal shortcoming of mine that offends her in some way (and I apparently have an endless reservoir of these upon which she may draw) will lead to a combination of silent treatment/sneering/open ridicule. Asking for sex and/or complaints about lacking sex on my part will lead to hysterical crying fits about how horrible and cruel that I am to her. I hope you get better ,more fun responses than this one. My first thought was, that's really not a change. That is all part of the mask that hides her true self. Keeping up her fakebook image. There is a whole lot of manipulation, double standards, hypocrocy, in a SM. |
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Post by cagedtiger on Nov 21, 2016 12:36:36 GMT -5
Being at church, or around the few mutual friends we still have, or around our families. Or when she thinks I'm pulling too far away.
All of a sudden she's suddenly sociable and somewhat affectionate.
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Post by bballgirl on Nov 21, 2016 12:46:43 GMT -5
A divorce gave me a personality change from my SO.
He is more respectful now because we don't live under the same roof and we get along better. I'm in a better mood too because I'm having sex more than once a year.
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Post by endthegame on Nov 21, 2016 12:59:01 GMT -5
Divorce papers fundamentally changed her from a stance of 'piss off you pervert' to a stance of 'don't leave me, I really want you... But not tonight as my (insert refuser excuse list 1 to 500 in order, then repeat)
Even at the last hurdle communicating with any affection in a reasonable form was beyond her, intimacy was still beyond her in every respect.
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Post by baza on Nov 21, 2016 17:13:20 GMT -5
Back in the day, visitors would provoke my missus in to putting on an act of normality, which would evaporate the moment they were gone.
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I wasn't worth her even putting on a temporary act for in my own right.
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Pretty clear communication about where I ranked in the scheme of things.
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Mind you, I played a part too, I'd make the odd P.A. ambiguous remark during her act to suggest that perhaps all might not be as it appeared.
That helped a lot --------- not.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2016 20:01:00 GMT -5
Nothing. My husband lost his personality when he started taking tribenzor.
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Post by greatcoastal on Nov 21, 2016 20:18:14 GMT -5
A lay off from work. That lead to moving to another state, giving up the dream house, her loosing years of friendly co-workers, and a supportive neighbor, relatives who lived an hour away. Then came a lot more negative co-workers and a worse work environment.
It highlighted how important career was over marriage. 14 years, and counting.
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Post by Rhapsodee on Nov 22, 2016 11:26:51 GMT -5
He's always the same.
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Post by solodriver on Nov 23, 2016 0:50:17 GMT -5
Menopause, pre and post, did it. 360 degrees |
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Post by JonDoe on Nov 23, 2016 9:37:52 GMT -5
Daylight savings time, the four seasons, a full moon, sharing my feelings, not sharing my feelings, sharing my opinions, not sharing my opinions, sharing facts that contradict her perception of reality, initiating physical intimacy, attempting to talk about sex, fantasies, finances or parenting, suggesting to take turns driving on a long road trip, not showing up at least 15 minutes early to a party, when she makes a mistake and needs to blame it on me, ...
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