This song is killing me.

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This song is killing me. Nov 7, 2016 11:26:33 GMT -5 via mobile Caris and becca like this

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Post by bballgirl on Nov 7, 2016 11:26:33 GMT -5

I recently heard this song on the radio and it gets to me every time.
I don't so much miss the ex but sometimes I wish he could have been a better man. However I know I made the right choice by leaving.
The lyrics "pushed my love away like a loaded gun and thought I'd never run" really summarize my situation well.
Enjoy the song.

Caris Senior Members Posts: 970	This song is killing me. Nov 7, 2016 19:20:57 GMT -5 via mobile bballgirl, JonDoe, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Caris on Nov 7, 2016 19:20:57 GMT -5 I feel the same way, not missing him, but I do feel the loss of what could have been. I miss that it never worked out, and a lost 25-years.

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This song is killing me. Nov 7, 2016 19:22:28 GMT -5 bballgirl likes this

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Post by obobfla on Nov 7, 2016 19:22:28 GMT -5

bballgirl, I have two songs for you:

The first is a song I posted a while back, but it's so good I will post it again. This song has literally helped me maintain a friendship with an old girlfriend - Don Henley's "The Heart of the Matter"

The next one has a different attitude. It's from Lucinda Williams, a woman I love and admire a lot -

I think I posted that one earlier too. Oh well!

bballgirl Senior Members Posts: 3,462	This song is killing me. Nov 7, 2016 19:33:29 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bballgirl on Nov 7, 2016 19:33:29 GMT -5 obobfla Thanks for the songs both very meaningful.

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This song is killing me.

Post by bballgirl on Nov 7, 2016 11:26:33 GMT -5

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