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Post by baza on Nov 2, 2016 2:30:27 GMT -5
Back on 1 June this year, I put up a poll (identical to the above) to which many members were kind enough to participate.
As it is now 5 months on from then it might be interesting to see if there has been any shift in the group.
If you could take a moment to respond, I'd appreciate it.
Guidelines "Staying" = no plans, theoretical or actual, to leave the marriage. "Thinking about leaving" = thinking about it theoretically, but no action underway at this time. "Actively in the process of leaving" = for example having seen a lawyer and established how a divorce might shake out. "Left" = self explanatory.
If you'd care to comment, as well as do the poll, that'd be great too. Of particular interest would be (if you participated the first time) whether you have changed your position since then.
It will be interesting to see if there has been any movement from the "stayers" to the "thinking about its" to the "active pursuers" to the "lefts" since that initial poll.
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Post by tamara68 on Nov 2, 2016 4:56:00 GMT -5
I have left 2 months ago. Last time I did this poll I was actively in the process of leaving. But I had not expected I'd be leaving this soon.
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Post by greatcoastal on Nov 2, 2016 7:09:25 GMT -5
August 18 2016, was the announcement day. Still in the process. Not going to say I have left, even though there is no turning back.
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Post by Chatter Fox on Nov 2, 2016 9:52:53 GMT -5
Thinking about leaving... although I am working an exit plan so I'll be ready if I feel the time has come.
I believe this was the same vote I cast in the last poll. I am still firmly on my fence. I have good days and bad. I've "decided" to leave tons of times. I have "decided" to stay a ton of times too. I'm still just taking it one day at a time and feeling like I'm getting closer to my clarity.
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Post by GeekGoddess on Nov 2, 2016 10:01:02 GMT -5
I would have already been out the first time of the poll too (though I really don't know if I voted on the June one or not)
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