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Post by Deleted on Oct 30, 2016 6:44:05 GMT -5
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Post by beachguy on Oct 30, 2016 7:06:45 GMT -5
Not the first step. The sexless relationship is already well established. Someone needs to grab that guy, give him a good shake, and shout "this isn't normal! It doesn't have to be this way!"
But as we've seen here, that is a slow motion train wreck that just has to take its course. And we all know the ending
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 30, 2016 7:22:44 GMT -5
Sounds like a lifelong refuser in the making..... I wish I knew who this poor anonymous sole was so I could reach out and rescue him!
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Post by beachguy on Oct 30, 2016 7:48:53 GMT -5
And how about the author, hammering home the idea that the sex doesn't really matter?
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 30, 2016 7:55:52 GMT -5
And how about the author, hammering home the idea that the sex doesn't really matter? She'll soon be on Oprah and The View and the gloried as a hero. |
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Post by greatcoastal on Oct 30, 2016 8:13:12 GMT -5
"at the beginning I didn't mind having sex with him".
Translation: I came down from my pedestal long enough to try something that would only involve, or be a method to lead to self gratification.
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Post by beachguy on Oct 30, 2016 8:47:10 GMT -5
"at the beginning I didn't mind having sex with him". Translation: I came down from my pedestal long enough to try something that would only involve, or be a method to lead to self gratification. Sounds like simple bait n switch to me... |
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Post by wewbwb on Oct 30, 2016 13:24:34 GMT -5
" Talking about your sexual fantasies, sharing intimacies about your best sexual experiences and basically putting sex on the menu could breathe passion into your currently unsatisfactory physical encounters."
Huh.
Communication.
I am shocked.
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Post by beachguy on Oct 30, 2016 15:53:12 GMT -5
" Talking about your sexual fantasies, sharing intimacies about your best sexual experiences and basically putting sex on the menu could breathe passion into your currently unsatisfactory physical encounters." Huh. Communication. I am shocked. When most of the refused here start talking about their sexual fantasies, their refusers run screaming from the room shouting "pervert!". Printer's ink was always cheap. More so now in the Internet age. |
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Post by jim44444 on Oct 30, 2016 19:38:07 GMT -5
IMO Ms. Frostrup has no clue of which she speaks. She left out the scented candles.
The letter writer has no sexual desire for her boyfriend and the advise giver recommends pornographic to get in the mood. Yep, that will get her in the mood but she still have no desire for her boyfriend.
The big picture item here is that the women has a boyfriend but does not have a lover.
The advise should have been "Move on".
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 30, 2016 20:08:17 GMT -5
Dollars to donuts she lost interest soon after moving in together
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Post by Deleted on Oct 30, 2016 20:12:37 GMT -5
And how about the author, hammering home the idea that the sex doesn't really matter? Yes! I was appalled at the columnist's advice! |
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Post by wewbwb on Oct 30, 2016 20:21:08 GMT -5
" Talking about your sexual fantasies, sharing intimacies about your best sexual experiences and basically putting sex on the menu could breathe passion into your currently unsatisfactory physical encounters." Huh. Communication. I am shocked. When most of the refused here start talking about their sexual fantasies, their refusers run screaming from the room shouting "pervert!". Printer's ink was always cheap. More so now in the Internet age. With good reason in my case... |
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Post by beachguy on Oct 30, 2016 20:27:58 GMT -5
And how about the author, hammering home the idea that the sex doesn't really matter? Yes! I was appalled at the columnist's advice! Someone needs to post an article reminding those sexperts that Queen Victoria is dead... |
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 30, 2016 21:40:13 GMT -5
And how about the author, hammering home the idea that the sex doesn't really matter? Yes! I was appalled at the columnist's advice! Ms. Frostrup (If I recall, the second R is silent or was it the M was implied, and in Ms. Frost-rump). |
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