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Post by DryCreek on Oct 24, 2016 22:10:43 GMT -5
....I want the steak dinner and the peach cobbler a la mode. Don't forget the sex  I'll bet bballgirl can find a way to make peach cobbler á la mode a bedroom food. ;-) Though it might be a little hot. And cold. Whoo! |
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Post by bballgirl on Oct 25, 2016 6:31:47 GMT -5
Don't forget the sex I'll bet bballgirl can find a way to make peach cobbler á la mode a bedroom food. ;-) Though it might be a little hot. And cold. Whoo! I'm laughing so much and yes while I can definitely make it a bedroom food, I'm thinking more along the lines of "him" being tied to a kitchen chair. I've been thinking about that a lot lately. It's that song Halleluah that keeps that idea in my head. |
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Post by Rhapsodee on Oct 25, 2016 11:50:58 GMT -5
My life will not be complete until it's over.
To be alive is to be incomplete.
Embracing incompleteness leaves us open to new experiences.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2016 12:10:38 GMT -5
My life will not be complete until it's over. To be alive is to be incomplete. Embracing incompleteness leaves us open to new experiences. And *this* is why I have always had trouble making decisions and picking one path to follow. |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 25, 2016 23:29:54 GMT -5
My life will not be complete until it's over. To be alive is to be incomplete. Embracing incompleteness leaves us open to new experiences. I agree 100%. I see my wife who sits around and watches TV when she is not working. She doesn't want sex, or to do anything exciting or try to enjoy anything.
I'm not ready to quit living. I'm looking forward to new experiences and especially new romantic experiences that I've never had yet.
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Post by DryCreek on Oct 26, 2016 1:03:28 GMT -5
My life will not be complete until it's over. To be alive is to be incomplete. Embracing incompleteness leaves us open to new experiences. I agree 100%. I see my wife who sits around and watches TV when she is not working. She doesn't want sex, or to do anything exciting or try to enjoy anything.
I'm not ready to quit living. I'm looking forward to new experiences and especially new romantic experiences that I've never had yet. I know people (not W) who manage to watch 50 hours a week of TV. There's so much living that can be done with that time! I'm all for having some mindless downtime, but in moderation. People are sometimes impressed by how much stuff I do, while I aspire to do more - it's all a question of where you spend your time. |
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Post by Rhapsodee on Oct 28, 2016 1:18:36 GMT -5
I agree 100%. I see my wife who sits around and watches TV when she is not working. She doesn't want sex, or to do anything exciting or try to enjoy anything.
I'm not ready to quit living. I'm looking forward to new experiences and especially new romantic experiences that I've never had yet. I know people (not W) who manage to watch 50 hours a week of TV. There's so much living that can be done with that time! I'm all for having some mindless downtime, but in moderation. People are sometimes impressed by how much stuff I do, while I aspire to do more - it's all a question of where you spend your time. My husband spends a good part of his free time watching tv. I invite him to join me on hikes and to go dancing. I always get a no. When I started getting out and doing social activities I started feeling better about myself. As long as I'm in this world I want to be a part of it. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 28, 2016 8:36:32 GMT -5
People have to label everything because it isn't real or special unless you give it a name. Our relationship is so special because "you complete me" or "we are soul mates" - I usually find people who want to overly define what their relationship is are projecting what they actually want instead of what they have.
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Post by solodriver on Oct 28, 2016 20:45:44 GMT -5
I know people (not W) who manage to watch 50 hours a week of TV. There's so much living that can be done with that time! I'm all for having some mindless downtime, but in moderation. People are sometimes impressed by how much stuff I do, while I aspire to do more - it's all a question of where you spend your time. My husband spends a good part of his free time watching tv. I invite him to join me on hikes and to go dancing. I always get a no. When I started getting out and doing social activities I started feeling better about myself. As long as I'm in this world I want to be a part of it. It's amazing how just a little bit of attention can make you feel so wonderful, especially from the opposite sex. |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 28, 2016 20:52:19 GMT -5
My husband spends a good part of his free time watching tv. I invite him to join me on hikes and to go dancing. I always get a no. When I started getting out and doing social activities I started feeling better about myself. As long as I'm in this world I want to be a part of it. It's amazing how just a little bit of attention can make you feel so wonderful, especially from the opposite sex. This past Tuesday I had my teeth cleaned. For whatever reason, on her own she talked to me the whole time (took 45 minutes) to tell me about her dating life. It was funny and sad all at the same time. She said she was kinda sad that she may not find a good man to settle down with again. Then I started wondering if she was refused or a refuser. But I certainly enjoyed her body brushing up against mine and the smell of her perfume as she worked on me. |
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Post by JMX on Oct 28, 2016 22:06:14 GMT -5
People have to label everything because it isn't real or special unless you give it a name. Our relationship is so special because "you complete me" or "we are soul mates" - I usually find people who want to overly define what their relationship is are projecting what they actually want instead of what they have. Well, that's fucking interesting Celt. I need to think about that. |
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Post by Rhapsodee on Oct 29, 2016 0:18:18 GMT -5
People have to label everything because it isn't real or special unless you give it a name. Our relationship is so special because "you complete me" or "we are soul mates" - I usually find people who want to overly define what their relationship is are projecting what they actually want instead of what they have. Do you mean: |
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Post by baza on Oct 29, 2016 1:35:19 GMT -5
Back it in that if some public figure does something like jumping up and down on a couch on the Oprah show when talking about their betrothed, the herd will shortly follow.
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A well crafted line in a movie like "you complete me" will have the herd adopting the saying soon thereafter.
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The wiz-bang celebrity wedding featuring 14 stretch limo's et al will have the herd doing their best to emulate the nuptials.
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Post by Caris on Oct 29, 2016 12:40:29 GMT -5
People have to label everything because it isn't real or special unless you give it a name. Our relationship is so special because "you complete me" or "we are soul mates" - I usually find people who want to overly define what their relationship is are projecting what they actually want instead of what they have. Celt, I can only speak for myself. If I were to use the words "you complete me," I'd mean it from my heart and soul. Not everyone is shallow and insincere. I don't fall in love easily, (only twice in my life and 30-years apart), so if I say someone is my soulmate, then I mean it from my innermost depths, and it's forever, whether I'm with the person or not. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2016 21:42:41 GMT -5
People have to label everything because it isn't real or special unless you give it a name. Our relationship is so special because "you complete me" or "we are soul mates" - I usually find people who want to overly define what their relationship is are projecting what they actually want instead of what they have. Celt, I can only speak for myself. If I were to use the words "you complete me," I'd mean it from my heart and soul. Not everyone is shallow and insincere. I don't fall in love easily, (only twice in my life and 30-years apart), so if I say someone is my soulmate, then I mean it from my innermost depths, and it's forever, whether I'm with the person or not. I get what you are saying but my perspective is from the sexless marriage stance where we come here to the quite corner of the web to air our problems but in our day to day lives we pretend everything is Ok and portray to everyone our marriages are strong. When was the last dinner party or event you went to where someone said "we don't have a sex life". The usual response is we have happily married for X years - that the insincerity I am talking about. |
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