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Post by beachguy on Oct 11, 2016 15:46:06 GMT -5
I found a great sense of freedom once I no longer cared "why." Although, I guess I know why. He developed some health problems and depression. Nothing I did (or didn't do) was enough to convince him to get help and consistently do the things he needed to do, in order to be the man he used to be. And, the last time we Talked About It™ he says, "I'm trying as much as I'm going to try." And, "I have other priorities." But somehow, I *still* feel like 1) I was being selfish because he's been sick and depressed; and 2) what if I made a mistake? What if that relationship was the last one I could reasonably expect to have? Was it just time for me to settle down and accept getting old? Was that my fate, and being alone is my punishment for not accepting my fate? No, I don't think you know why he decided to flush his sexuality down the toilet without giving it even a modicum of effort and he made his priorities quite clear to you. If your quotes are accurate he could not have been clearer as to his intent, if not the WHY. He had no right to unilaterally enforce celibacy or his idea of old age on you. And you're not nearly old yet. He had no right to enforce that fate on you, nor should you have any reason to accept it. |
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 15, 2016 8:12:26 GMT -5
A few guys on here or EP were handed the bad news by their wives that their dick was too big. Good excuse really. What's he going to say, no it's not? Yup, got that excuse too! My wife said to me "Honey, your so big that it takes me a few days to recover!" to which I responded, "Ok, so what I hear you saying is your up for twice a week. I'm good with that! It's been two months, so how about right now!" Can you believe her response was "I don't have that kinda time, I've got an appointment for a pedicure in two hours!" WTF? |
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Post by beachguy on Oct 15, 2016 9:41:47 GMT -5
A few guys on here or EP were handed the bad news by their wives that their dick was too big. Good excuse really. What's he going to say, no it's not? Yup, got that excuse too! My wife said to me "Honey, your so big that it takes me a few days to recover!" to which I responded, "Ok, so what I hear you saying is your up for twice a week. I'm good with that! It's been two months, so how about right now!" Can you believe her response was "I don't have that kinda time, I've got an appointment for a pedicure in two hours!" WTF? I think we could have an entire thread devoted to the subject of refuser excuses that are so poorly thought out they make no sense at all. And fail second grade math, such as your case of 2 days vs 2 months My stbx once blamed my father, who did not like her because he saw through her. She went on for 5 minutes about him before I stopped it, suggesting she and he needed marriage counseling but she married me, not him. To belittle your spouse is considered abusive but how do you deal with totally ridiculous excuses without crossing that threshold? My solution was to leave. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 15, 2016 9:47:16 GMT -5
A few guys on here or EP were handed the bad news by their wives that their dick was too big. Good excuse really. What's he going to say, no it's not? Yup, got that excuse too! My wife said to me "Honey, your so big that it takes me a few days to recover!" to which I responded, "Ok, so what I hear you saying is your up for twice a week. I'm good with that! It's been two months, so how about right now!" Can you believe her response was "I don't have that kinda time, I've got an appointment for a pedicure in two hours!" WTF? LOL musical chairs excuses. |
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Post by beachguy on Oct 15, 2016 10:28:46 GMT -5
A few guys on here or EP were handed the bad news by their wives that their dick was too big. Good excuse really. What's he going to say, no it's not? Yup, got that excuse too! My wife said to me "Honey, your so big that it takes me a few days to recover!" to which I responded, "Ok, so what I hear you saying is your up for twice a week. I'm good with that! It's been two months, so how about right now!" Can you believe her response was "I don't have that kinda time, I've got an appointment for a pedicure in two hours!" WTF? She can't fuck you if her toenails are chipped. Don't you know ANYTHING about women? /sarcasm off/ |
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 15, 2016 10:54:51 GMT -5
Yup, got that excuse too! My wife said to me "Honey, your so big that it takes me a few days to recover!" to which I responded, "Ok, so what I hear you saying is your up for twice a week. I'm good with that! It's been two months, so how about right now!" Can you believe her response was "I don't have that kinda time, I've got an appointment for a pedicure in two hours!" WTF? She can't fuck you if her toenails are chipped. Don't you know ANYTHING about women? /sarcasm off/ Apparently not! I should have offered to " paint" her toenails or give her a " facial". 😂 |
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Post by beachguy on Oct 15, 2016 11:02:21 GMT -5
She can't fuck you if her toenails are chipped. Don't you know ANYTHING about women? /sarcasm off/ Apparently not! I should have offered to " paint" her toenails or give her a " facial". 😂 No, you should have scheduled an appointment after the pedicure. That would not get you laid but you would have been entertained by her squirming her way to the next excuse... |
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Post by JonDoe on Oct 15, 2016 11:13:44 GMT -5
When she opened the garage door, I was standing there buck naked for her and anyone else to see. Trust me, she had more excuses, the first of which was her toes were still wet.
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Post by beachguy on Oct 15, 2016 11:22:58 GMT -5
When she opened the garage door, I was standing there buck naked for her and anyone else to see. Trust me, she had more excuses, the first of which was her toes were still wet. And her excuse an hour later? We're rebuilding "The List" here... |
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Post by JMX on Oct 15, 2016 21:22:50 GMT -5
A few guys on here or EP were handed the bad news by their wives that their dick was too big. Good excuse really. What's he going to say, no it's not? Yup, got that excuse too! My wife said to me "Honey, your so big that it takes me a few days to recover!" to which I responded, "Ok, so what I hear you saying is your up for twice a week. I'm good with that! It's been two months, so how about right now!" Can you believe her response was "I don't have that kinda time, I've got an appointment for a pedicure in two hours!" WTF? Wow. My H's penis is the largest I have ever had. No joke, I walked around bow-legged for two weeks after we first "did the deed" the entire two weeks. I was pounded and sore. I didn't care. I had a stupid smile on my face even though it hurt to pee and wear jeans. Umm... I got used to it. Even now, when I feel like a born again, the muscle memory is great and I never feel busted up. Your wife was given a treasure. Treasure chests are heavy, but you get used to them because you love your treasure. She's an idiot. |
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Post by boudinMan on Oct 24, 2016 11:52:15 GMT -5
A few guys on here or EP were handed the bad news by their wives that their dick was too big. Good excuse really. What's he going to say, no it's not? well, that's NEVER happened to me... dammit. |
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Post by endthegame on Oct 24, 2016 14:42:29 GMT -5
Scarycorns living in our garden.
Scarycorns are like Unicorns, but wear scary clown masks. They are the bad boys of the fairy realm these days. And they don't shit rainbows like real Unicorns either, they shit real shit, like horses.
Anyway, my wife couldn't perform under these circumstances. I mean who could with Scarycorn shit in the garden.
Incidentally, I chased the why for years. It was essential I found it, vital!
I found it in the end, the why, her why.
It changed fuck all. May as well have been Scarycorns.
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Post by Rhapsodee on Oct 24, 2016 20:03:43 GMT -5
Passive agressive control freak.
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