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Post by Deleted on Sept 22, 2016 17:23:03 GMT -5
My STBX told me that I would go to hell if I divorced her. She also told me that she was a child of God & I could not criticize her. Of course, if I did anything she did not like, she told me that God would get me. I am a Christian, and I do love God, but her idea of religion was that she could do whatever she wanted & I should be a Godly husband and accept her regardless. Morality is a set of rules that tells us how other people should live.
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Post by LITW on Sept 23, 2016 13:42:40 GMT -5
My wife has interpreted Matthew 5:28 "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" to mean that if I look at a woman longer than a quick glance, or look at a photo of a woman less than fully clothed, that I am committing adultery. (in her words, I am twisting the knife in her back) Further, she is extremely suspicious of any conversations I have with other women unless she is present. Woe unto me if she ever finds my writings here ...
Based on her understanding of biblical sexual purity, I am a complete pervert. That makes me not want to engage her sexually or talk about sexuality with her if thats the position she is starting from.
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Post by csl on Sept 23, 2016 14:21:55 GMT -5
My wife has interpreted Matthew 5:28 "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" to mean that if I look at a woman longer than a quick glance, or look at a photo of a woman less than fully clothed, that I am committing adultery. (in her words, I am twisting the knife in her back) Further, she is extremely suspicious of any conversations I have with other women unless she is present. Woe unto me if she ever finds my writings here ... Based on her understanding of biblical sexual purity, I am a complete pervert. That makes me not want to engage her sexually or talk about sexuality with her if thats the position she is starting from. You can tell your wife that she's completely and totally in the wrong. Check out GH's post on " Lust", from 2012. (For those of you for whom Christianspeak mean nothing, "nothing to see here, move along.")
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Post by csl on Sept 23, 2016 14:23:58 GMT -5
My STBX told me that I would go to hell if I divorced her. She also told me that she was a child of God & I could not criticize her. Of course, if I did anything she did not like, she told me that God would get me. I am a Christian, and I do love God, but her idea of religion was that she could do whatever she wanted & I should be a Godly husband and accept her regardless. My LYWACLTC series took that crap apart. And don't get me started on "Unconditional love"!
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Post by darktippedrose on Sept 23, 2016 15:24:17 GMT -5
when I first got married, me beautifying myself for him, or anything like that, he said it was shameful for a religious woman to act that way.
he also said he was a one-woman man lol
go figure
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Post by Deleted on Sept 23, 2016 18:02:09 GMT -5
My wife has interpreted Matthew 5:28 "But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart" to mean that if I look at a woman longer than a quick glance, or look at a photo of a woman less than fully clothed, that I am committing adultery. (in her words, I am twisting the knife in her back) Further, she is extremely suspicious of any conversations I have with other women unless she is present. Woe unto me if she ever finds my writings here ... Based on her understanding of biblical sexual purity, I am a complete pervert. That makes me not want to engage her sexually or talk about sexuality with her if thats the position she is starting from. So then, as soon as you put a ring in your finger, your second most powerful biological urge, the drive that perpetuates life on Earth, just shuts right off...POOF!
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Post by Deleted on Sept 24, 2016 13:37:36 GMT -5
it is so sad and childish that people believe in any god. When will people give up all this bullshit and accept reality?
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Post by csl on Sept 24, 2016 15:17:30 GMT -5
it is so sad and childish that people believe in any god. When will people give up all this bullshit and accept reality? Yeah, uh huh. Omniscient you are?
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