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He is still sexless Apr 21, 2016 22:55:16 GMT -5 Isabellas39, DryCreek, and 2 more like this

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Post by unmatched on Apr 21, 2016 22:55:16 GMT -5

Apr 21, 2016 22:33:50 GMT -5 littlebit said:

"You can have my toy when you pry it from my cold dead hands." --Clint Eastwood

I think it was his cold dead toy she was more worried about

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He is still sexless Apr 25, 2016 6:02:06 GMT -5 thefullmoon likes this

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Post by jim44444 on Apr 25, 2016 6:02:06 GMT -5

Apr 10, 2016 8:34:34 GMT -5 pointbreakgirl said:

Sorry my first post on here. Just had to post this.

My refuser, after parading a countless number of "girlfriends" in front of the kids and his mother (to maintain the non-gay charade) has finally found someone who morally objects to sex lol. He had to dump all the others because they all demanded sex lol. And for whatever reason, he felt the need to share with me, even though I told him repeatedly that I didn't care. Anyway his new sexless gf told him that she won't have sex with him until he is saved. He goes to church to pretend he is faithful, but there will never be a consumation in that relationship. It's perfect for her, because he is safe, it is perfect for him, because he can remain sexless. It has lasted now for months, because both are maintaining their outward appearances.

Pathetic that my kids and I have to continue to be connected to that controlling pos. I look forward to the day that I no longer have to exchange the kids. Maybe this am I will wear earplugs so I don't have to listen to his garbage!

Oh yeah--he actually said he ran out of one girlfriend's house after she showed him her drawer full of toys

Hi PBG,
It is good to hear from you. I recall your story from EP and the multiple layers of hell that you went through in your marriage and divorce. All because he lacks the balls to accept who he is (gay, asexual or just an asshole). I did chuckle at him running from a drawer full of toys. For the guys on here that would have been like the ultimate Christmas morning.

I lok lok forward to stories from you about your improved life without him.

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Frustrated1978 Full Member Posts: 108	He is still sexless Apr 25, 2016 23:07:57 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Frustrated1978 on Apr 25, 2016 23:07:57 GMT -5 Sister Point break at the very least it shows that there is someone out there for everyone. I agree with investing in some ear plugs.

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He is still sexless Apr 29, 2016 21:26:48 GMT -5

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Post by itsjustus on Apr 29, 2016 21:26:48 GMT -5

Apr 15, 2016 16:40:29 GMT -5 @smartkat said:

Apr 15, 2016 12:19:08 GMT -5 Dan said:

Just re-read your post. You know, in my post-SM relationships (assuming I'm headed that way), I think I'm going to REQUIRE any woman I'm seeing to HAVE a "drawer full of toys"....

What if I just have one toy, but I really, *really* like that one?

Ha ha ha ha!!!!!

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Apr 16, 2016 12:23:00 GMT -5 @smartkat said:

Apr 15, 2016 21:12:36 GMT -5 DryCreek said:

I, for one, could be convinced. Any woman willing to defend her toy ... Well, that alone speaks volumes! I'd leave it in your hands (ahem) to determine the best way to express its... efficacy.

What can I say? I'm loyal. I find one I like....I stick with it. [g]

@smartkat

You are going to share the name of you main squeeze, right? Inquiring minds...

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