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Post by cagedadventurer on May 22, 2016 19:16:13 GMT -5
Run with that thought! If you don't want his hands on you then don't take the reset. It will probably be so unfulfilling anyway. Instead channel the opportunity to refuse him. I never got that opportunity. If I would have gotten the chance to refuse his advances I would have said something to the effect of: "Who the fuck do you think you are? We haven't had sex in 2 years and now you think I'm going to just give it up because you want to?! Just so we are clear, I do not plan to ever have sex with you again which is more courtesy than you ever showed me because you made a unilateral decision to withhold sex and never let me know. Also so we are clear, in spite of the fact that we won't be having sex ever again, I do not plan on being celibate for the rest of my life like I have been for the past 13 years. So what are your thoughts on another man fucking your roommate?" bballgirl, I love it. That's awesome and it shows how empowered you are. I'm not quite there yet. Working on my exit plan but still mustering the guts to go thru with it. If I said all that, which I would love to - believe me, it would surely be over and I'd have no choice but to leave. Plus, refuser has a temper and is a drinker - not a nice combo. Who knows what he might do? Then again, maybe that would be me my breaking point, which I'm always looking for!
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