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Post by wewbwb on Feb 4, 2018 8:27:58 GMT -5
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Post by wewbwb on Feb 2, 2018 12:02:26 GMT -5
I tried RelateToThat, but it turned out to be nothing like EP. I think the owner worried about getting into legal trouble to the point where nobody was allowed to do anything interesting. There’s always some dumbass who has to ruin things for everybody else.... That's usually me.
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Post by wewbwb on Feb 1, 2018 17:20:14 GMT -5
There was also the mention of "steeped in superstition", we might not be welcomed with open arms. How about legs? Will they be open?
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Post by wewbwb on Feb 1, 2018 17:14:42 GMT -5
In the fine print there is something about the HOA being managed by the "black hand". We don't talk about that. Omerta.
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 31, 2018 18:05:25 GMT -5
Or a rock. There really is no "right" answer here. (Sorry, I'm in one of those moods.) Or a hand grenade. "Sure, she's willing to jump on that! But not my erection? "
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 31, 2018 17:43:12 GMT -5
Concurrently, you might handle the mess problem by throwing a bit of money at it by engaging a cleaner. Or a rock. There really is no "right" answer here. (Sorry, I'm in one of those moods.)
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 31, 2018 14:06:07 GMT -5
One cannot "force" a depressed person to seek help. I know this firsthand. "A person who doesn't want to isn't going to." - WEWBWB. (your zen of the day - you're welcome.) True, you can't force anyone to get psychiatric help (except for three days if they're a threat to their own or someone else's safety, I think you can have them committed but and that's different) but you can call their attention to a situation in a caring way and suggest that they may be depressed, which they themselves may not have considered. You can look up potential resources for counseling and psychiatric consults for them or call yourself. If that doesn't work, one might also seek out a counselor themself to brainstorm ideas about how to deal with this extreme sounding situation. One may point out all the ways they show signs of depression. One may have all the resources handy and a counselor on speed dial. One may even make the appointment FOR them. If they sit there and "feel attacked" - well, that was just a big step backwards. I
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 31, 2018 13:32:10 GMT -5
I did. - and I still can't get the keyboard clean. Oh. Sorry. I thought that you meant- oh never mind. Oh.
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 31, 2018 13:30:21 GMT -5
So what would be a good way to start that conversation to where I can get her to understand that about herself. She hates going to doctors. I would just be real with her. Tell her she needs to go to a therapist. Perhaps hire a cleaning service to reset the house and once clean maybe that will help everyone to restart mentally in addition to therapy. I have been depressed myself where I can't get motivated to get out of bed. (That or you were tied to the bed.....) I have no idea what is wrong with me. I'm sorry.
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 31, 2018 13:28:41 GMT -5
One cannot "force" a depressed person to seek help. I know this firsthand. "A person who doesn't want to isn't going to." - WEWBWB. (your zen of the day - you're welcome.) Pound it...! I did. - and I still can't get the keyboard clean. Oh. Sorry. I thought that you meant- oh never mind.
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 31, 2018 13:04:32 GMT -5
One cannot "force" a depressed person to seek help. I know this firsthand.
"A person who doesn't want to isn't going to." - WEWBWB. (your zen of the day - you're welcome.)
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 30, 2018 17:45:04 GMT -5
A man I only like as a friend has asked me out. I’ve known him about 6 months, and I am not attracted to him at all. In the interests of not being “too picky” should I go out with him anyway? The only thing that I suggest - as a man who has "been there" is make sure he knows that you have no other interest in him.
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 30, 2018 17:40:02 GMT -5
Zen of the day: Silence is a source of great strength.
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 29, 2018 15:28:35 GMT -5
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Post by wewbwb on Jan 29, 2018 9:22:18 GMT -5
Zen of the day: All difficult things have their origin in that which is easy, and all great things in that which is small.
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