Why does so much talk take place and not actually work?
Apr 1, 2021 22:02:03 GMT -5
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Post by hldriver on Apr 1, 2021 22:02:03 GMT -5
I am new to this.
I have to say that I would prefer to compartmentalise sex from love and intimacy because I would like to be both a sex subject and a sex object.
I have tried that and possibly because of online sex dating sites, I have experienced that and this experience changed my mindset but I was too young then.
Then I had a good relationship that made me decide to marry her basically speaking.
I just wish my high libido would be acknowledged by a woman where her own high libido actually coincides with mine. I rarely found this woman to do that.
I don't think that I want to leave my family or divorce or ruin my life and I would prefer to cherrypick the best of both worlds as consenting adults should do.
I wish that there was a legitimate website where sexually frustrated men meet sexually frustrated women not because we live in a free world but because we should be happy and we deserve to be happy.
The healing talk may be healing to some but to me it exhausts me and actually reduces my libido. My own love for sex, not just because I am sex-addict, I may be but because I have been so much inspired to take this beautiful and sexy woman on to my journey, cannot be easily consummated...I am insatiable.
The challenging thing is not to cheat but to actually admit to ourselves that since we have got different ways and mindsets we actually do something about it.
We get to work...be it me-time work (no matter why it can be...!) or let's meet Jane (thinking of myself as Tarzan...) or hi people time, let's all party together.
To me it is more about release and feeling ecstatic and much less about intimacy because if we get them both with other person from our spouses, then it will get messy.
Let's keep this clean and lead our dirty secrets under the sheets but actually we will be true to ourselves because it is ok to be horny and it is ok to love sex, there is nothing wrong or taboo about that.
Let me know your thoughts and if you have come across that thought at any point in your life, please respond and share below.
I have to say that I would prefer to compartmentalise sex from love and intimacy because I would like to be both a sex subject and a sex object.
I have tried that and possibly because of online sex dating sites, I have experienced that and this experience changed my mindset but I was too young then.
Then I had a good relationship that made me decide to marry her basically speaking.
I just wish my high libido would be acknowledged by a woman where her own high libido actually coincides with mine. I rarely found this woman to do that.
I don't think that I want to leave my family or divorce or ruin my life and I would prefer to cherrypick the best of both worlds as consenting adults should do.
I wish that there was a legitimate website where sexually frustrated men meet sexually frustrated women not because we live in a free world but because we should be happy and we deserve to be happy.
The healing talk may be healing to some but to me it exhausts me and actually reduces my libido. My own love for sex, not just because I am sex-addict, I may be but because I have been so much inspired to take this beautiful and sexy woman on to my journey, cannot be easily consummated...I am insatiable.
The challenging thing is not to cheat but to actually admit to ourselves that since we have got different ways and mindsets we actually do something about it.
We get to work...be it me-time work (no matter why it can be...!) or let's meet Jane (thinking of myself as Tarzan...) or hi people time, let's all party together.
To me it is more about release and feeling ecstatic and much less about intimacy because if we get them both with other person from our spouses, then it will get messy.
Let's keep this clean and lead our dirty secrets under the sheets but actually we will be true to ourselves because it is ok to be horny and it is ok to love sex, there is nothing wrong or taboo about that.
Let me know your thoughts and if you have come across that thought at any point in your life, please respond and share below.