This is the story of my sexless hellhole. Remind me to care about you. Remind me to touch you. Remind me to kiss you. Remind me to have sex with you. Remind me to love you, bc I just can’t possibly bring myself to remember and it doesn’t come naturally. Just make sure to remind me to the point of nagging so I can say you’re starting a fight and shut down. Then I’ll tell you that you’re the problem and the reason I can never be intimate with you is bc you’re nagging and I never know what to expect. Then everything is all your fault and I’m just a good person trying to get along. Blah, blah rinse and repeat.
Last Edit: Feb 16, 2019 20:53:04 GMT -5 by smith227
As baza said " What he might choose to do is out of your control and as far as possible, something to be ignored". Ignore it, while at the same time ,it's helpful to identify the 'problem' as HIS PROBLEM. Something he will continue to do for the rest of his life, not just to you, but to others as well.
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petrushka: In my world view, you are buying into some really shitty memes there.
Nov 5, 2019 17:25:20 GMT -5
apocrypha: The "feminist agenda" has changed across the past 60 years. Some feminists of the 60's call the current iteration "fainting couch feminism", thinking it a subversion and betrayal of women's lib. Hard to get a bead on what folks think, using a broad label.
Nov 8, 2019 9:37:14 GMT -5
apocrypha: No aspect of that article (which I amount to a magazine offering bad diet advice) promotes rape, coercion (beyond seduction), sexual assault, and I don't understand your public performance suggesting that they would be and thus implicating bfar.
Nov 8, 2019 9:41:51 GMT -5
mirrororchid: pfar, being sensitive means understanding how others think and feel. It doesn't mean you are compelled to adopt their thoughts and feelings. This is a matter of understanding people including loved ones. If you aren't sensitive, you lack tools to
Nov 11, 2019 8:09:49 GMT -5
mirrororchid: live well. You need not soften, but you should be able to understand vulnerability. Recognizing others' distress provides me with cues when I need to use self-control or extend help. If you're strong, you should be helping others. Use what works.
Nov 11, 2019 8:14:06 GMT -5
worksforme2: You know who I miss ...I miss smartkat and andie..and snowman 12345
Nov 14, 2019 9:16:44 GMT -5