Not meant to be! Just saying it in jest, comparing the outsourcing married men to single men. Lots better selection in the married section!
It's a no-go for me (to date a married man now that I'm single). I just meant it as a "ha ha".
Same here! No dating married woman.I would consider someone mostly finished with there divorce, since I was in those shoes before. I have all of you to thank for that information. The stories of the LTR's that ended because someone would not leave their marriage, makes my skin crawl!
I found a lot of good matches on Ashley Madison. The ratio is in our favor (real women vs. men). You will have your pick. I almost regret getting divorced. Much better selection on Ashley Madison. The guys on regular sites are generally: scumbags, men who will never commit, or men who were discarded for a REASON.
It's a curious dichotomy in my mind as guys have a shorter life span, in older years finding someone worth your while may be harder for women, than men? However if it's a free website there will be free-loaders so there's your scumbag ratio.
On AM for guys the experiences are less than favorable (and that's an optimistic statement). Though I had asked "NOT TO BE CONTACTED" under 40 or Out of Area, there's hoards of FREE LOADER women most of them OUT OF AREA, even OUT OF COUNTRY sending pic and messages.
I do not know about more "data driven - or serious minded sites" such as Match? Perhaps if you're SOMEWHERE in your life where you VALUE yourself you'd put your money on finding someone valuable?
Your eyes cannot see, what your mind does not know.
misssunnybunny: I'm also very sad to see that andie is gone
Oct 22, 2018 16:25:07 GMT -5
jim44444: hmisssunnybunny not only did andie delete her existence here she also deleted her tumblr account. Maybe her hubby found her online postings.
Oct 22, 2018 19:52:59 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: Oh, no! Hope she is okay...
Oct 22, 2018 20:00:25 GMT -5
solodriver: I'm sad andie is gone too. She reached out to me when I first joined the group at a time when I was really sick, and talked to me everyday until I was well again and shared a lot of her stories with me.
Oct 22, 2018 20:58:28 GMT -5
isthisit: Apologies for being a techno numpty- can anyone help me to send a PM? When I choose the member as a recipient the error message indicating a staff member is required. Eh?
Nov 6, 2018 15:03:40 GMT -5
solodriver: isthisit you cannot send PMs until your membership changes to member
Nov 6, 2018 21:41:58 GMT -5
isthisit: Thanks solodriver and shynjdude for your replies. Is there some info somewhere about these divisions? I have had a mooch around and haven't come across it yet.
Nov 8, 2018 10:22:28 GMT -5
solodriver: I think it is/was under the Welcome tab, but not sure where.
Nov 8, 2018 21:52:19 GMT -5