Not meant to be! Just saying it in jest, comparing the outsourcing married men to single men. Lots better selection in the married section!
It's a no-go for me (to date a married man now that I'm single). I just meant it as a "ha ha".
Same here! No dating married woman.I would consider someone mostly finished with there divorce, since I was in those shoes before. I have all of you to thank for that information. The stories of the LTR's that ended because someone would not leave their marriage, makes my skin crawl!
I found a lot of good matches on Ashley Madison. The ratio is in our favor (real women vs. men). You will have your pick. I almost regret getting divorced. Much better selection on Ashley Madison. The guys on regular sites are generally: scumbags, men who will never commit, or men who were discarded for a REASON.
It's a curious dichotomy in my mind as guys have a shorter life span, in older years finding someone worth your while may be harder for women, than men? However if it's a free website there will be free-loaders so there's your scumbag ratio.
On AM for guys the experiences are less than favorable (and that's an optimistic statement). Though I had asked "NOT TO BE CONTACTED" under 40 or Out of Area, there's hoards of FREE LOADER women most of them OUT OF AREA, even OUT OF COUNTRY sending pic and messages.
I do not know about more "data driven - or serious minded sites" such as Match? Perhaps if you're SOMEWHERE in your life where you VALUE yourself you'd put your money on finding someone valuable?
Your eyes cannot see, what your mind does not know.
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! So glad to hear you had a great day
Jan 19, 2019 16:34:01 GMT -5
worksforme2: anyone hear anything lately from mrslowmaintenance or smartkat?
Jan 24, 2019 18:06:02 GMT -5
petrushka: Just saw the forecast for Mildura at 47C -- I hope you and Ms. Enna are going to be ok Baz. That's getting dangerous.
Jan 24, 2019 20:10:00 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville: I last heard from mrslowmaintenance about a month ago. I have been in regular contact with her for the last year and a half. I feel comfortable in saying that her situation remains unchanged. If you want to know more PM me.
Jan 25, 2019 22:36:50 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey baza,...I know it's hot and dry down under. N.C. is having record rainfall. I would gladly trade some rain for some sunshine....
Feb 22, 2019 20:28:35 GMT -5
tamara68: Today it's steak and blowjob day! I suppose the steak is for those who don't get a blowjob.
Mar 14, 2019 16:49:49 GMT -5
petrushka: tamara68 Laughing with tears in my eyes. And my steak is going to be semolina gruel, due to some tummy upset :-\
Mar 15, 2019 1:11:10 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: So sad to hear the news from New Zealand. Boston Strong supports Kiwi Strong!!
Mar 15, 2019 7:46:22 GMT -5
petrushka: I was gobsmacked when I heard. This is just not us. In all of 2017 we had 37 murders in the country ..... I think the echo chambers of "social media" have a lot to answer for.
Mar 15, 2019 18:45:45 GMT -5
baza: Feeling for our Brothers and Sisters across the ditch Brother petrushka .
Mar 15, 2019 19:27:50 GMT -5
misssunnybunny: petrushka, I thought I read the headline wrong (this stuff happens here, not in NZ). It is frightening the hate that is being spread; it makes my heart hurt.
Mar 15, 2019 20:46:54 GMT -5
saarinista: All of us, IMHO, should try to be civil and kind as much as possible in person and online. I actively Tweet (civilly) on political matters and am horrified by the rancor & trolling on both sides of the spectrum, which only inflames unstable people.
Mar 19, 2019 23:21:20 GMT -5
saarinista: is anyone else watching March Madness?
Mar 24, 2019 11:44:48 GMT -5