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Post by mypaintbrushes on May 26, 2018 14:39:16 GMT -5
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Post by saarinista on May 26, 2018 15:31:37 GMT -5
Some interesting stories in that link. Good read! Thanks for posting that.
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Post by ironhamster on Jun 3, 2018 22:39:18 GMT -5
I'm not sure, but I doubt any of the people in the article went through the sort of hell that we have before cheating. I do not feel any remorse for having gone outside my marriage, my farce of a marriage, my fraudulent marriage.
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Post by elkclan2 on Jun 4, 2018 3:20:24 GMT -5
I'm not sure, but I doubt any of the people in the article went through the sort of hell that we have before cheating. I do not feel any remorse for having gone outside my marriage, my farce of a marriage, my fraudulent marriage. Me neither. I went out and looked for an affair in a desperate attempt to save my marriage. I know it sounds absurd, but I thought - well maybe if I'm getting some I won't feel so bereft and I'll be able to put more emotional juju into the relationship. As it turns out the the affair revealed that there was so much more wrong with the marriage than just the no sex. It's not like I didn't try HARD to make it work. Anyway, while I was looking for an affair partner, I met men who were frankly just players, men who were chasing that new relationship energy despite having a pretty good sex life at home and men who were in sexless marriages - sometimes because their partners were selfish assholes and occasionally because of ill health and sometimes in relationships where everything was great bar the sex. (I know we think that's a lie here, but my affair partner of five years really did seem to have that. I rarely heard a bad word about his spouse, and when I did it was super normal stuff about living with another person. And I often could see how proud he was of her accomplishments and how much fun they had together!) There are many reasons that people cheat... It's never an ideal situation, but sometimes it's a lifeline.
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