Just found this forum this morning. Found it incredibly illuminating. Brief history of what has brought me here. I've been married for 42 years, I'm 61, W is 63. While not a sexless marriage by the common definition, it is nowhere near what I desire or has been in the past.We separated for five years early in our marriage over the lack of intimacy,reconciled.Intimacy and sex life was great for roughly 1-2 years and has gotten progressively worse since. Many fights over the years over this, am currently in a place of it not worth fighting over anymore. I am currently being treated for depression in large part due to this. W knows this is why, and is bothered by it, but apparently not enough to do anything to help other than encourage therapy. Current frequency is once a week if I push for it, has been up to a month w/o if not. I usually initiate once a week, just to keep her from being suspicious of my having an affair,(have that in our history as part of the separation) but find it increasingly difficult to care. Looking forward to making friends here and working things in my marriage through to a solution I can live with. Leaving isn't an option to me morally, but roommate status has certainly been considered. Any way looking forward to interacting here with others.
misssunnybunny: You're welcome! So glad to hear you had a great day
Jan 19, 2019 16:34:01 GMT -5
worksforme2: anyone hear anything lately from mrslowmaintenance or smartkat?
Jan 24, 2019 18:06:02 GMT -5
petrushka: Just saw the forecast for Mildura at 47C -- I hope you and Ms. Enna are going to be ok Baz. That's getting dangerous.
Jan 24, 2019 20:10:00 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville: I last heard from mrslowmaintenance about a month ago. I have been in regular contact with her for the last year and a half. I feel comfortable in saying that her situation remains unchanged. If you want to know more PM me.
Jan 25, 2019 22:36:50 GMT -5
worksforme2: Hey baza,...I know it's hot and dry down under. N.C. is having record rainfall. I would gladly trade some rain for some sunshine....
Feb 22, 2019 20:28:35 GMT -5