I like the other saying, "Everybody wants to go to Heaven, but nobody wants to die." Do I lie to my wife? No, not really. Do I disclose everything? Oh, Hell no! What I didn't find in the article was - what was her definition of happiness? To be "honest" I am not a big fan of the NYT. I find to much skewing of information to alter how it is seen. Also it was not a real study - with control groups and everything - just some writer's opinion.
I don’t want to go to heaven. Not anymore. Let me burn.
What is this heaven you speak of?
Sham's Law #1: Everything in life is simple. First you figure out what you want. Second, you figure out how to get it. Third you do it. The first step, unfortunately happens to be the hardest.