Hello! I'm liltree, previously from the EP site. I found "I Live in a Sexless Marriage" back in winter of 2012. I was led there by a random woman from another forum, and I was amazed at finding people who understood what I was going through. I left my sexless marriage in fall of 2013, but the journey and recovery from the emotional abuse has continued. I hope to continue to contribute to the community and help others find peace and progress.
I have linked my EP stories in my profile, should anyone want to reference them...
Hello! I am JMX (formerly JMX46578, because... well, it's easier)! Thanks Dan! I found ILIASM in 2013, learned a lot and am in the middle of a very long, very drawn out exit plan. I am also going to get some of my stories together when I figure out my profile. This forum is going to take some getting used to!
Post by darktippedrose on Mar 24, 2016 1:41:37 GMT -5
I'm darktippedrose, same darktippedrose from EP. I've been a member since 2008 or 2009. I lurked for months before that. I started getting rejected after 2 weeks of marriage, but it didn't get bad until 5-6 years of marriage and its just gotten worse with time. I have no intention of staying forever but I can't leave right at the moment either.
Hi all, LdnBreeder here from EP - in a sexless marriage since 2011 with my own unconventional solution but hey I get a lot out of talking to you all, particularly knowing that it's not just me who's in this situation.
I'll sort out this avatar next. Big thank you to Dan for putting this together.
I can't lose my EP peeps. I can't lose my extended cyber family!
Hi!! Yay, I'm so thankful for this new site. I made it, too - warmways! Thank you, Dan!!
I'm warmways, (formerly bluegreenseascape) and found this site googling sexless marriage during one of many lonely, rough nights. Its been a few years I've been on EP. Reclaimig myself is a slow process for me but I'm finally noticing a shift, getting stronger after the neglect and emotional abuse. Individual therapy and gently putting the focus back on me to ask what I need instead of automatic response of thinking of my husband and others first. Thanks to so many on here and many resources and starting to believe in myself again. My wish is to be able to share more of what's helped me.