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Post by WindSister on Feb 14, 2017 17:21:25 GMT -5
Good music here. I like music people. My husband and I actually got to know each other so well in the beginning by sharing music that spoke to us. Now we enjoy it every Friday night and many, many concerts a year - it's our guilty pleasure. We have 8 big ones coming up in the next few months plus some smaller ones.
My song as I navigated through Divorce was by Rascal Flatts - Moving on. My husband's for his ex-wife was Let me be myself by 3 Doors Down. He said she made him feel stifled his whole life.
Our song is Shotgun Rider by Tim McGraw. We were driving one day and it came on -- he turned to me, smiled and said, "this is it -- this is my song for you." I hadn't even asked him to pick a song out for me, he just did it out of the blue. I get all full of love everytime I hear it. When I asked my ex once if a song ever reminded him of me he got blank and said, "uhhh... not really." Never settle. EVER.
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 14, 2017 18:22:29 GMT -5
WindSister Moving On was the song that helped me to grieve my marriage while I was still in it. What a beautiful and meaningful song. It was on my playlist when I would go walking. It was something I hoped for, to be able to divorce and Move On. Originally I planned to stay in my marriage until 2019, but I figured a way out sooner. After I filed for the divorce and heard the song again it was so emotional because it was finally real. I divorced a year ago after a 23 year SM. My life is a lot happier and more at peace now.
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Post by WindSister on Feb 15, 2017 10:34:13 GMT -5
WindSister Moving On was the song that helped me to grieve my marriage while I was still in it. What a beautiful and meaningful song. It was on my playlist when I would go walking. It was something I hoped for, to be able to divorce and Move On. Originally I planned to stay in my marriage until 2019, but I figured a way out sooner. After I filed for the divorce and heard the song again it was so emotional because it was finally real. I divorced a year ago after a 23 year SM. My life is a lot happier and more at peace now. We have a shared song - that is cool. It just fits. I am glad you are happier and at peace.
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Post by wewbwb on Feb 15, 2017 14:23:37 GMT -5
No. But I've seen the devil beat his wife.
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 16, 2017 2:19:02 GMT -5
Just adore Sevdaliza's work atm
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Post by RexCorvus on Feb 16, 2017 13:14:07 GMT -5
Don't you worry about the distance
I'm right there if you get lonely
Give this song another listen
Close your eyes
Listen to my voice, it's my disguise
I'm by your side
Oh it's what you do to me What you do to me
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Post by bballgirl on Feb 16, 2017 14:21:25 GMT -5
No. But I've seen the devil beat his wife. Ah! raining while the sun is shining!!
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Post by wewbwb on Feb 16, 2017 15:40:35 GMT -5
No. But I've seen the devil beat his wife. Ah! raining while the sun is shining!! Doesn't everyone know that? (so sarcastic)
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 17, 2017 1:13:20 GMT -5
Crooning to one of my old faves while I prepare for Friday.
What a week. Looking forward to the weekend breathing space!
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Post by eternaloptimism on Feb 17, 2017 4:19:06 GMT -5
"I don't feel sad about letting you go I just feel sad about letting you know"
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Post by Deleted on Feb 17, 2017 14:20:58 GMT -5
This is the kind of mood I've been in this week.
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Post by WindSister on Feb 17, 2017 14:33:30 GMT -5
It's Friday. If you don't at least tap your feet to this one, you have no soul.
When I was single I had fun meeting up with others to see these guys and dance on Friday nights.
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Post by misssunnybunny on Feb 18, 2017 18:07:14 GMT -5
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Post by WindSister on Feb 20, 2017 10:20:05 GMT -5
I lived 15 years with a man who honestly didn't care if I was home or not (towards the end I actually left in the middle of the night one night and he had no clue I was gone - it was a test of sorts and also just because I had to get out of that bed with him). I vacationed alone (with friends) and he never called to check in. When I got home he'd be playing video games and try to fake an enthusiastic "Hey!!! Good to see you" as he played Zelda or god knows whatever else - some lame ass game. The dog dish was empty, curtains shut. Cold. Dark. I hated that home with him. I was HOMELESS and so very lonely in life because I wanted a relationship with a man on a deep level. I knew I wanted it.
Fast forward - I have that now. I was trying to define what love feels like to me in some writings I was doing a while ago and I came up with this: "You are my familiar - my home; the warmth in my heart, the smile on my lips." That sums it up for me.
This song used to send me into ugly-crying sessions before I met him - the one - my "home." Home is not a place, it's our love. I will never take that for granted and I will celebrate it always. (as scary as that feels sometimes, you know, to love someone THAT much.... because love always always comes with heartbreak eventually, but I would rather suffer the heartbreak than never share the love). I was a very late bloomer, having never had anything like this before (now age 43), you bet I am grateful for what we have.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2017 21:20:12 GMT -5
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