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Post by Apocrypha on Nov 14, 2023 15:37:32 GMT -5
Was alcohol a factor here?
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miestas
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Post by miestas on Nov 14, 2023 18:45:21 GMT -5
Was alcohol a factor here? No, unfortunately. She has done this several times and was never drunk at the time. She has fallen asleep during full body massage, and I did attribute that to good technique on my part, as jim4444 pointed out. However, his post finally penetrated my thick skull and I now see that I have not made myself clear in my OP. Sorry for that. This is actually funny, though. Due to my lack of details, y’all made an assumption that is exactly backwards. So “Rewind. Reverse that.” In these several instances of which I am speaking, she fell asleep while giving ME foreplay. To be explicit, handjob - twice; her kissing me “below the belt” - twice. Yeah, immediate blow to the ego, but my ego is pretty healthy, so I attributed it to her total lack of interest in the proceedings. This is kind of funny because I had been reading all of your responses from the point of view of my original poorly worded intent, and they all still work. Now I re-read them from your point of view and the advice is totally different. Thanks, y’all. You unintentionally made me laugh and made my day. |
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Post by deadzone75 on Nov 15, 2023 1:28:03 GMT -5
Was alcohol a factor here? No, unfortunately. She has done this several times and was never drunk at the time. She has fallen asleep during full body massage, and I did attribute that to good technique on my part, as jim4444 pointed out. However, his post finally penetrated my thick skull and I now see that I have not made myself clear in my OP. Sorry for that. This is actually funny, though. Due to my lack of details, y’all made an assumption that is exactly backwards. So “Rewind. Reverse that.” In these several instances of which I am speaking, she fell asleep while giving ME foreplay. To be explicit, handjob - twice; her kissing me “below the belt” - twice. Yeah, immediate blow to the ego, but my ego is pretty healthy, so I attributed it to her total lack of interest in the proceedings. This is kind of funny because I had been reading all of your responses from the point of view of my original poorly worded intent, and they all still work. Now I re-read them from your point of view and the advice is totally different. Thanks, y’all. You unintentionally made me laugh and made my day. That she was the one giving when she passed out is somehow even worse. That's brutal, man. Only excuse either way would be if the person died. |
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Post by aquacat on Nov 15, 2023 14:04:27 GMT -5
How did you get her to kiss you "below the belt"? I'd do almost anything for her if she did that to me.
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Post by mirrororchid on Nov 17, 2023 5:59:45 GMT -5
They are bored out of their minds...with war or sci-fi movies.... i fall asleep like i have narcolepsy when certain car shows are played over and over and over or the show they make knives and swords ...... he puts those on just so i won't want to snuggle or look to him for anything physical. no matter how tired i was........ if there was foreplay I am staying awake for the show.... On my one date with Kathy she told me she was a reality TV fan and I mildly said that reality TV wasn't my thing. She said she'd make sure I was entertained if I watched with her. Had I taken her as a lover, I must admit, I'd probably have put up with some absolute garbage TV.
lessingham Why did you go to the couch? Ladies, is it easier, harder or the same to climax when sleepy? Should a guy wake a girl to enjoy the attention? Or is it stupid? It may matter how long you've been together.
miestasI have to give your wife credit. She leveled up the "I'm too tired" excuse. She has invented: "I'm not tired enough to pass out halfway through, babe. Sorry. Maybe this weekend." |
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