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Post by JMX on Aug 24, 2023 23:08:25 GMT -5
Curious who all is still here and how everyone is going?
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Post by baza on Aug 25, 2023 23:07:12 GMT -5
Gday Sister JMX.
Still here.
The site is pretty quiet, new members scarce, and not a lot of activity happening.
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Post by lessingham on Aug 26, 2023 3:49:37 GMT -5
I wax and wane. Sometimes I find comfort fron venting here. Sometimes there is great advice. Othertimes I battle with my inner cowardice and find the "action banishes fear" philosophy challenging. After years here I know what to do abd how to do it. But doing it is beyond me and I feel a semi detached member
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Post by anotherdavid on Aug 26, 2023 4:07:04 GMT -5
Just want to say I really appreciate the forum and am a frequent visitor just now. The range of shared experiences has had a profound impact on my "is it just me" thinking after 10 years of being refused. At present I'm working my way through Byron Katie's insightful book "Loving what is" - anyone else read it?
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Post by worksforme2 on Aug 26, 2023 8:39:14 GMT -5
Good to see you again JMX...
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Post by northstarmom on Aug 26, 2023 14:36:05 GMT -5
I continue to be happy in my now 10-years long post SM relationship. I stay here to remind myself of how miserable my life was before I decided to divorce. Being here reminds me to be grateful for the life I have now. We're now 71, 72. My love has almost died twice since we've been together so every day is precious to me because I do know that all relationships end in death or divorce so I should treasure the life I have now. Not one time have I regretted ending my 34-year marriage.
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Post by greatcoastal on Aug 26, 2023 14:37:30 GMT -5
Still here, trying to contribute. Nothing like when I first showed up married in my SM!
Single and free,trying new things....dancing, jet sking, exercising! I experienced 3 years of a steady relationship with healthy sex and intimacy, since my divorce.
Would love to read an update on you and your marriage?
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Post by catlover on Aug 26, 2023 22:08:34 GMT -5
Yeah, still here, ssdd. I do appreciate being able to talk about my situation anonymously, stuff I cannot share with friends with mostly objective feedback from folks.
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Post by jim44444 on Aug 27, 2023 21:32:46 GMT -5
Hi JMX, yes I am still here. Funny thing is I just thought of you the other day. |
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Post by jerri on Aug 27, 2023 23:54:23 GMT -5
Do tell us how you have been.
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Post by deadzone75 on Aug 28, 2023 0:37:45 GMT -5
Better, older, not necessarily wiser.
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Post by hopingforachange on Aug 28, 2023 21:52:22 GMT -5
I'm still here but not reading and posting as much as I once was. I think I've transitioned to accepting for now
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Post by mirrororchid on Aug 30, 2023 20:29:53 GMT -5
Here. Reset since Dec 2019.
More good days than bad. Might make it to the finish line.
Still on the carnivore diet?
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Post by Same old, same old on Sept 13, 2023 19:35:29 GMT -5
Curious who all is still here and how everyone is going? Hi, JMX ... I'm still here, although under a new name. I left for awhile but decided to come back after about a month. I'm still staying in this SM but have gotten to a dulled existence with my roommate. I don't feel anything about it anymore. It is what it is and I'm stuck. I hope all of the members here are doing well. |
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Post by sweetplumeria on Sept 14, 2023 2:37:25 GMT -5
So I read a post of Baza and he said he was divorced in 2009. I don't do time real well but I am pretty sure I crossed paths with him in EP before his divorce and if that's true then I have been in my situation (2023 minus 2008= 🤯 15 years)...
I have no idea how I feel about it. I often don't come to this forum when things are good or when I feel like there is nothing new to say. Such great wisdom here but I have been to afraid to change my life. So here I am. Still.
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