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How messed up is this? Aug 27, 2023 20:54:08 GMT -5 via mobile deadzone75 and jerri like this

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Post by jim44444 on Aug 27, 2023 20:54:08 GMT -5

Aug 24, 2023 9:48:54 GMT -5 deadzone75 said:

"They covered themselves in baby oil and fucked until they were blue like Smurfs".

You sir have a warped mind.
That is a damned funny visual.

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How messed up is this? Sept 5, 2023 19:23:29 GMT -5 via mobile greatcoastal and heelots like this

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Post by h on Sept 5, 2023 19:23:29 GMT -5

Aug 15, 2023 12:01:19 GMT -5 m76 said:

So my wife writes romance novels. I've tried reading a couple but there are sex scenes in the books and reading them just makes me depressed. So I've told her I'm not interested in reading them since she's not interested in doing any of the sexy things she writes about. Now she's angry with me for not "supporting" her.

Oh hell no. There is no way in hell I would read my wife's romance/erotic novel while she was simultaneously refusing sex for long periods of time. And I would tell her exactly that.

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How messed up is this? Sept 5, 2023 19:29:05 GMT -5 via mobile northstarmom and h like this

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Sept 5, 2023 19:23:29 GMT -5 h said:

Aug 15, 2023 12:01:19 GMT -5 m76 said:

Oh hell no. There is no way in hell I would read my wife's romance/erotic novel while she was simultaneously refusing sex for long periods of time. And I would tell her exactly that.

Wow, if that lady is not in therapy, she should be! That is seriously messed up! 😐

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How messed up is this? Sept 5, 2023 19:32:05 GMT -5 via mobile northstarmom, h, and 1 more like this

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Aug 15, 2023 23:24:53 GMT -5 baza said:

Aug 15, 2023 12:01:19 GMT -5 m76 said:

Brother Apocrypha might weigh in on this one m76 .

He often makes the point that just because your spouse has no sexual desire toward you, it does NOT follow that they have no sexual desire generally.

All well and good, but to write a bunch of erotic shit then bitch because her deprived spouse won't read her crap is absolutely reprehensible!

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