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Post by worksforme2 on Jan 18, 2024 15:10:53 GMT -5
This could be a valid reading of the situation. My X was like this. As an "Alpha" female she refused me having a FWB, even though she had no real desire for intimacy with me. It seems a common trait in women that even though they may not want or have a need for something they will be damned if another woman is going to have it. Do you think its Alpha or controlling behavior? Hazarding a guess, I would say it is both. Most Alpha personalities want to be in charge or lead the way. For instance: My X like to pick out our travel destinations. And she planned the itinirary along the way, and when we arrived. Later she would critize me for not helping in the planning more. I might have helped more if she had shown more consideration in asking me before the trip was about half way planned. One thing she did let me do. If we were driving somewhere I made direction decisions. My X was a terrible navigator. She woulat times argue with the GPS and often ignore it when it said to turn.
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