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Post by ironhamster on Oct 20, 2020 4:24:43 GMT -5
 What the consequences for no BJ's? Sex? Right. It doesn't sound like a deal so much as a one sided mandate. Whatever it is, every day the participants choose to live under it, or not. lessingham , you need to dream a bit. Old folks homes are one of the places venereal diseases are spread. I say that as evidence that there are guys older than you getting their rocks off. It's not like shooting pool with a rope anymore. Modern medicine makes sex possible for as long as you want it. One guy I hung out with last summer was 74, now 75. His wife stopped wanting sex. He asked her what he should do, and, she still loved him and wanted to stay married, but told him to get it somewhere else. So, with all the older men dropping out he has five women on rotation. When I told him I wanted to be like him when I reached his age, he laughed and said there were guys younger than me that wanted to be like him right now. Your future isn't set. It is what you make of it. Find your happiness. |
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Post by lessingham on Oct 20, 2020 5:56:48 GMT -5
Yes, it was a one sided kicking. She felt she had the moral high ground and I had to change.
At Christmas the Albert Hall in London used to do mass Christmas singalongs. As the conductor said, there were 4000 voices, who knew who was flat. I loved going to them to bellow away
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Oct 20, 2020 8:14:27 GMT -5
Post by csl on Oct 20, 2020 8:14:27 GMT -5
Yes, it was a one sided kicking. She felt she had the moral high ground and I had to change. At Christmas the Albert Hall in London used to do mass Christmas singalongs. As the conductor said, there were 4000 voices, who knew who was flat. I loved going to them to bellow away I love the Big Sings! YouTube used to have them, and used to have entire Songs of Praise programs. Now, you can only get single songs, over here. |
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Post by lessingham on Nov 6, 2020 4:03:29 GMT -5
And to prove the universe has a sense of humour. I had no coins for the car park so used the phone text service. I tapped in the code. I received a text back, how long do you want, Lucy. I replied 3 hours and she replied that I was greedy but it would cost me over a hundred pounds!!!!! Turned out it was a sex text line. She thought it was hilarious when I explained.
The universe is not only weirder than we think, it is weirder than we can possibly imagine.
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Post by worksforme2 on Feb 17, 2021 8:13:07 GMT -5
And to prove the universe has a sense of humour. I had no coins for the car park so used the phone text service. I tapped in the code. I received a text back, how long do you want, Lucy. I replied 3 hours and she replied that I was greedy but it would cost me over a hundred pounds!!!!! Turned out it was a sex text line. She thought it was hilarious when I explained. The universe is not only weirder than we think, it is weirder than we can possibly imagine. You should have explained to her you were in a SM and had been for years. She would have understood the need for a 3hr. session. |
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Post by apocrypha on Feb 18, 2021 9:22:01 GMT -5
Yes, it was a one sided kicking. She felt she had the moral high ground and I had to change. At Christmas the Albert Hall in London used to do mass Christmas singalongs. As the conductor said, there were 4000 voices, who knew who was flat. I loved going to them to bellow away Cool! fun personal aside for a moment - I am one of the performing members of the Canada-based Choir! Choir! Choir! - which is all over youtube. It was a wonderful place to go and start something new after my separation, and a place where I met many friends. |
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Mar 23, 2021 8:09:48 GMT -5
Post by blueguy on Mar 23, 2021 8:09:48 GMT -5
I am still trying to understand why she was against you conversing with your American friends? What did she agree to in exchange for you giving up those things?
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Mar 28, 2021 3:40:12 GMT -5
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Post by lessingham on Mar 28, 2021 3:40:12 GMT -5
She hated my american friend and said it was emotional adultery. She hated the fact we talked about everything every day. She hated what my american friend wanted me to become, better dressed, a writer, a snob. I got in return to ztay in my home and to keep the life I have. No lightening bolt of divorce.
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Post by shamwow on Mar 28, 2021 8:29:23 GMT -5
She hated my american friend and said it was emotional adultery. She hated the fact we talked about everything every day. She hated what my american friend wanted me to become, better dressed, a writer, a snob. I got in return to ztay in my home and to keep the life I have. No lightening bolt of divorce. Were the conversations inappropriate for a married man? If not, then she should pound sand. If so, then you might want to have an appropriate conversation with her as to why you can't have similar conversations with your wife. My initial guess is that it's difficult to have intimate conversations with someone who holds a sword over your head. And for the record, I don't usually sing out loud, but the voices iny head do. |
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Apr 14, 2021 21:59:47 GMT -5
Post by blueguy on Apr 14, 2021 21:59:47 GMT -5
I had a WTF moment today. I’ve been pretty stressed at work lately and my wife knows today was not a good day. She had the gall to tell me “I wish I could take the stress away. I wish there was something I could do to get you in a better mood and take the frustration away.”
Really??? Gee, I can think of something that would easily help put me in a better mood!
It didn’t help that I’ve started this new supplement that is supposed to lower cortisol levels. For guys this helps increase free testosterone. Not to be too TMI but my balls were aching today that I know only relief would help with. I even told my wife this today and she said that she shouldn’t have to take care of it all the time. Boy do I wish I had a FWB right now....
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Apr 15, 2021 3:23:57 GMT -5
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Post by lessingham on Apr 15, 2021 3:23:57 GMT -5
I am sorry blueguy but I am laughing at your dilemma. Here, take these pills, they will cure you but the side effects are yiu will be as horny as a teenager. Hee, thank's doc. Can I get them for my wife too?  No, sorry. Get well, enjoy the buzz of horniness. Msy you meet someone worthy of it. |
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What the consequences for no BJ's? Sex?
No, sorry. 