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Post by mirrororchid on May 8, 2024 5:26:54 GMT -5
5/8/24
Initiated Sunday. The Mrs. couldn't get into it. Neck pain would have made continuing discourteous and made for a tainted experience for her and not a little for me too.
She lamented the aborted mission, and waxed fondly about the twice in one week she managed last month. I explained it was not the same week. She pointed out it was mid week. Yes, I said, but not the same week.
She got quiet. Maybe I shouldn't have popped her bubble. Would have been better if she felt herself capable of such exuberance and she'd be pleased about pulling off a mid week tryst again.
Oops. Sometimes if a refuser has delusions like this, it may be better to let them think they are zestier than they are, if its in a positive context like this. If they use it to defend starvation, that's when patient, gentle, yet firm deployment of your calendar is called for. Do not let facts be altered. If they choose to deny, they need to know that they have done so when papers are filed or your marriage is opened.
5/14/24 Mother's Day gift for me this past Sunday. Go figure. If you had bet me, I would have lost.
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