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Post by choosinghappy on Feb 25, 2019 11:10:17 GMT -5
Post-SM.
The weight and the heaviness has lifted. The anger is gone, the resentment is gone. I feel lighter in life and oh so much happier.
I have a man now who cherishes and appreciates me and the mutual desire is off the charts. Best sex of my life and copious amounts of it. I know how lucky I am and I am grateful.
Day to day is much the same with being a single mom except I’m happier, feel grateful, feel joyful. And I’m always looking forward to something now. When that constant dark cloud pressing on you is lifted you are able to see more clearly and appreciate the little things.
I have a lot of alone time now and I enjoy it. I think about things I actually WANT to do and find ways to work them into my life, rather than just trudging through what I HAVE to do and constantly having that strain of words unspoken. Now I can take life at face value. I’ve connected more with friends I rarely used to see, I’ve made fun plans, I’ve started learning new things that I was always interested in...
I can truly say life is so much better now.
There are challenges too, with being solely responsible for the household, finances, my son and his disability and medical issues...it’s a lot. But challenges feel easier now because I am more mentally healthy being out of my marriage.
And the best thing of all is my son, wrapping his arms around me and saying: “Mommy, I love living here with you” (In our new house). He’s happy, and I’m happy. Life is good.
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Post by h on Feb 25, 2019 11:24:13 GMT -5
Still working on fixing my SM for now. Most weekdays are very routine: Wake up early. Go to work. Come home from work. Make dinner while W does paperwork she brought home from her job. Eat dinner with W while watching something on Netflix. Go to bed. (If I'm lucky, have sex, but more likely lay awake until she goes to sleep and take care of myself.) Repeat.
Weekends are slightly better. We have managed to squeeze in morning sex most weekends on one of the days. The rest of these days are filled with laundry, meal planning for the week, catching up on cleaning that gets behind during the week, and home repairs.
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Post by elkclan2 on Feb 25, 2019 13:30:26 GMT -5
Still working on fixing my SM for now. Most weekdays are very routine: Wake up early. Go to work. Come home from work. Make dinner while W does paperwork she brought home from her job. Eat dinner with W while watching something on Netflix. Go to bed. (If I'm lucky, have sex, but more likely lay awake until she goes to sleep and take care of myself.) Repeat. Weekends are slightly better. We have managed to squeeze in morning sex most weekends on one of the days. The rest of these days are filled with laundry, meal planning for the week, catching up on cleaning that gets behind during the week, and home repairs. It's great that you're getting almost weekly sex. But it doesn't sound like there's a lot of room for fun there. Are you having any fun?
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Post by h on Feb 25, 2019 14:22:43 GMT -5
Still working on fixing my SM for now. Most weekdays are very routine: Wake up early. Go to work. Come home from work. Make dinner while W does paperwork she brought home from her job. Eat dinner with W while watching something on Netflix. Go to bed. (If I'm lucky, have sex, but more likely lay awake until she goes to sleep and take care of myself.) Repeat. Weekends are slightly better. We have managed to squeeze in morning sex most weekends on one of the days. The rest of these days are filled with laundry, meal planning for the week, catching up on cleaning that gets behind during the week, and home repairs. It's great that you're getting almost weekly sex. But it doesn't sound like there's a lot of room for fun there. Are you having any fun? We just got back from a week vacation in Myrtle Beach. We get away one week a year and stay in a nice resort somewhere. Besides that, there really isn't much time for fun. We both work full time and each have 2nd jobs for part of the year. For a few months each spring and fall, we both work 7 days a week due to our seasonal jobs overlapping.
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Post by solodriver on Mar 1, 2019 0:44:59 GMT -5
Well my turn...
Up at 4:30am, get ready and go to work 5:00pm off work and another hour and half commute home Clean up any pet messes that may have happened make my dinner On computer for awhile Wash dishes Go to bed
Repeat
Saturday and Sunday Sleep in late, nothing to get up for unless I have a scheduled appointment for car maintenance or something like that Do several loads of laundry do grocery shopping Clean house Make/eat lunch Take nap Play with dogs outside in backyard Take a vigorous walk for exercise for about 45 minutes by myself Get on computer for awhile Make and eat dinner Clean out cat boxes Wash dishes Go to bed
I sleep in spare bedroom alone
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