Broken Hearts...

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 14:22:11 GMT -5 Vitruvius, solodriver, and 3 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Aug 26, 2018 14:22:11 GMT -5 They mend right? Tell me they do.

misssunnybunny Senior Members Posts: 1,613 Age Range: 51-55	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 14:37:02 GMT -5 solodriver, choosinghappy, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by misssunnybunny on Aug 26, 2018 14:37:02 GMT -5 Sorry you have a broken heart. They do mend, over time.
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Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 14:54:20 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Aug 26, 2018 14:54:20 GMT -5 Thank you. 😢

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 15:59:09 GMT -5 solodriver, choosinghappy, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Aug 26, 2018 15:59:09 GMT -5 My experience is limited but I sure hope so, @elle. I do know that virtual hugs can help. ((hug))

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 17:24:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Aug 26, 2018 17:24:25 GMT -5 Thank you. Hugs help.

worksforme2 Senior Members Posts: 3,347 Age Range: 70+	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 18:58:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by worksforme2 on Aug 26, 2018 18:58:25 GMT -5 Just point out to me the guy that broke your heart and I'll take care of him.....

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Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 19:11:36 GMT -5 bballgirl likes this

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Post by baza on Aug 26, 2018 19:11:36 GMT -5

"Time" - your enemy in an ILIASM situation, is now your friend, in a post ILIASM situation Sister @elle .

But it's a bit like giving up a bad habit.
The benefits are not instantaneous but are more incremental.

And in my experience, hearts do mend.

TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo Senior Member If you are not careful, I will try to seduce you Posts: 1,097 Age Range: 46-50	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 19:20:00 GMT -5 via mobile sweetplumeria, solodriver, and 4 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Aug 26, 2018 19:20:00 GMT -5 The quickest way to get over someone is to get under someone. <I'll show myself out now>

sadkat Senior Member Posts: 1,185	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 20:07:38 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sadkat on Aug 26, 2018 20:07:38 GMT -5 @ Baza- you do have a way with words! I agree- time does help!

bballgirl Senior Members Posts: 3,462	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 20:20:54 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bballgirl on Aug 26, 2018 20:20:54 GMT -5 Hugs - they mend, give it time.

greatcoastal Senior Members Thanks for the Birthday wishes! Dinner with a friend tonight and B.D dance with the ladies! Posts: 6,727 Age Range: 56-60	Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 21:11:09 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by greatcoastal on Aug 26, 2018 21:11:09 GMT -5 There is an old saying " Time heals all wounds" It needs a disclaimer " in most cases but not everything".
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Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 22:55:42 GMT -5 via Tapatalk solodriver, heartbrokengirl, and 2 more like this

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Post by choosinghappy on Aug 26, 2018 22:55:42 GMT -5

((((Hugs))))

Time will help, my dear. In my experience I have found that the sharp pain will slowly morph to a dull ache and then will eventually fade. You may never forget but you will not always feel like this.

I’m sorry. ❤️❤️

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Broken Hearts... Aug 26, 2018 23:02:14 GMT -5 GeekGoddess likes this

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Post by solodriver on Aug 26, 2018 23:02:14 GMT -5

Hugs Elie,

I sure hope so too. I recently heard of a friend who had to have 17 stints put in their heart from the damage caused by a heart attack.
She is functioning just fine. I think our emotional hearts can be healed in much the same, by the talent, care and love of a loving relationship.
I'm still searching for my "Heart Specialist".
I'm very encouraged by the experiences of many in this group.

It’s hard to continue to love someone romantically who doesn’t love you back in the way you need to feel like a whole person.

hopingforachange Senior Members Posts: 2,086	Broken Hearts... Aug 27, 2018 1:28:34 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by hopingforachange on Aug 27, 2018 1:28:34 GMT -5 With time and care they do. Time alone will not need your heart and only lead to scaring. You need to care for your heart.

shamwow Senior Members Forum Benefactor Posts: 3,597 Age Range: 46-50	Broken Hearts... Aug 27, 2018 8:16:27 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by shamwow on Aug 27, 2018 8:16:27 GMT -5 You got this
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