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novembercomingfire Full Member Rude, Tattooed, and Rarely Screwed ... Posts: 454	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 18:52:21 GMT -5 via mobile Dan, GeekGoddess, and 17 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by novembercomingfire on Feb 21, 2018 18:52:21 GMT -5 As of today, I am a free man. My divorce was finalized this morning. I am glad to join you on the other side ...
	He said you do need help my friend. I whispered: obviously.

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Today ... Feb 21, 2018 18:56:47 GMT -5 novembercomingfire likes this

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Feb 21, 2018 18:52:21 GMT -5 novembercomingfire said:

As of today, I am a free man. My divorce was finalized this morning. I am glad to join you on the other side ...

I'm Jealous!! Here's to restoration, and new beginnings!!!!

Stars can't shine without darkness.

Caris Senior Members Posts: 970	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 19:56:19 GMT -5 via mobile novembercomingfire likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Caris on Feb 21, 2018 19:56:19 GMT -5 My best wishes for a better future. How are you feeling?

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Feb 21, 2018 18:56:47 GMT -5 greatcoastal said:

Feb 21, 2018 18:52:21 GMT -5 novembercomingfire said:

As of today, I am a free man. My divorce was finalized this morning. I am glad to join you on the other side ...

I'm Jealous!! Here's to restoration, and new beginnings!!!!

Thank you!

He said you do need help my friend. I whispered: obviously.

novembercomingfire Full Member Rude, Tattooed, and Rarely Screwed ... Posts: 454	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 20:14:43 GMT -5 via mobile GeekGoddess, bballgirl, and 5 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by novembercomingfire on Feb 21, 2018 20:14:43 GMT -5 Feb 21, 2018 19:56:19 GMT -5 Caris said: My best wishes for a better future. How are you feeling? Thank you! I feel relieved. Like someone let me out of a cage.
	He said you do need help my friend. I whispered: obviously.

misssunnybunny Senior Members Posts: 1,613 Age Range: 51-55	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 21:03:13 GMT -5 novembercomingfire likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by misssunnybunny on Feb 21, 2018 21:03:13 GMT -5 Best to you as you start this new chapter of your life. It is a relief to have the process finished after so much stress to get to the end.
	We're all stories in the end. Just make it a good one.

novembercomingfire Full Member Rude, Tattooed, and Rarely Screwed ... Posts: 454	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 21:23:34 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by novembercomingfire on Feb 21, 2018 21:23:34 GMT -5 Feb 21, 2018 21:03:13 GMT -5 misssunnybunny said: Best to you as you start this new chapter of your life. It is a relief to have the process finished after so much stress to get to the end. Thank you!
	He said you do need help my friend. I whispered: obviously.

TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo Senior Member If you are not careful, I will try to seduce you Posts: 1,098 Age Range: 46-50	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 21:49:14 GMT -5 via mobile novembercomingfire and saarinista like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo on Feb 21, 2018 21:49:14 GMT -5 Woo hoo! All the best.

novembercomingfire Full Member Rude, Tattooed, and Rarely Screwed ... Posts: 454	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 22:17:18 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by novembercomingfire on Feb 21, 2018 22:17:18 GMT -5 Feb 21, 2018 21:49:14 GMT -5 TheGreatContender -aka Daddeeo said: Woo hoo! All the best. Thanks!
	He said you do need help my friend. I whispered: obviously.

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Today ... Feb 21, 2018 22:30:21 GMT -5 GeekGoddess, novembercomingfire, and 2 more like this

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Post by baza on Feb 21, 2018 22:30:21 GMT -5

Congratulations on this landmark part of your process Brother novembercomingfire .
It'd be great if you could hang around - or occasionally check in - and let us know how the next stage(s) of your process go.

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Today ... Feb 21, 2018 23:23:16 GMT -5 via mobile novembercomingfire and saarinista like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2018 23:23:16 GMT -5 Congrats!! Must feel great!

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Feb 21, 2018 20:14:43 GMT -5 novembercomingfire said:

Feb 21, 2018 19:56:19 GMT -5 Caris said:

My best wishes for a better future. How are you feeling?

Thank you! I feel relieved. Like someone let me out of a cage.

I felt like I’d been released from a 25-year prison sentence, so I can understand that.

WindSister Senior Members I have thoughts, but I could be wrong ;) Posts: 1,550 Age Range: 41-45	Today ... Feb 23, 2018 10:27:07 GMT -5 GeekGoddess and jim44444 like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by WindSister on Feb 23, 2018 10:27:07 GMT -5 I hate to say "congrats" for a divorce, but yet, somehow, it does seem to usually fit. Mostly, I just wish you peace, love and fulfillment for the future!
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Today ... Feb 23, 2018 22:41:37 GMT -5

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If you were female, I would suggest doing like a friend of mine did years ago. She dressed up in a sexy black cocktail dress and bought a keg of beer at the bar we frequented.

Maybe rent a tux or put on your best black suit and get a limo. Fill it up with friends and go out on the town! I’d do it, and I don’t even drink!

elkclan2 Senior Member Posts: 515	Today ... Feb 24, 2018 5:08:11 GMT -5 jim44444 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by elkclan2 on Feb 24, 2018 5:08:11 GMT -5 Congrats!!! Here's hoping I join the ranks of the divorced this year! Although I'm not single as I'm in a great new relationship, I like the celebration suggestion of obobfla

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