Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage

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TMD Senior Members Posts: 669 Age Range: 41-45	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 25, 2017 22:45:09 GMT -5 via mobile obobfla and saarinista like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by TMD on Dec 25, 2017 22:45:09 GMT -5 I’m deeply sorry to read of your spouse’s passing. Wishing you peace, where possible, in the grief.
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Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 26, 2017 0:17:21 GMT -5 obobfla and saarinista like this

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Post by deborahmanning on Dec 26, 2017 0:17:21 GMT -5

I'm so sorry. The rollercoaster of emotions must be in full overdrive. And it had to be Christmas! (Shakes fist at universe) It's awful. You were so faithful.

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Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 26, 2017 13:01:24 GMT -5 obobfla likes this

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Post by WindSister on Dec 26, 2017 13:01:24 GMT -5

Oh my gosh. I am just seeing this now. Sending you condolences, for what it is worth.... You were there for her through it all. Wishing you peace and healing in the coming months/year. Take care of yourself. ((hugs))

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orangepeel Full Member Posts: 240	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 26, 2017 18:27:13 GMT -5 via mobile obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by orangepeel on Dec 26, 2017 18:27:13 GMT -5 As above. This is really sad. My condolences.

bballgirl Senior Members Posts: 3,462	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 27, 2017 11:47:20 GMT -5 via mobile obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bballgirl on Dec 27, 2017 11:47:20 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

mypaintbrushes Full Member Posts: 410	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 27, 2017 16:59:14 GMT -5 via mobile obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mypaintbrushes on Dec 27, 2017 16:59:14 GMT -5 I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace and comfort.

takestwototango Full Member Separated Posts: 101 Age Range: 51-55	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 27, 2017 19:54:22 GMT -5 via mobile obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by takestwototango on Dec 27, 2017 19:54:22 GMT -5 Just seeing this. I am so sorry for your loss. Praying peace and comfort for you & your son.

saarinista Senior Member Posts: 1,609 Age Range: 56-60	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 28, 2017 4:16:13 GMT -5 obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by saarinista on Dec 28, 2017 4:16:13 GMT -5 My condolences to you and yours. I can only imagine the sadness and confusion you are feeling. Please be good to yourself.
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allworkandnoplay Junior Member Posts: 94 Age Range: 46-50	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 28, 2017 22:42:49 GMT -5 obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by allworkandnoplay on Dec 28, 2017 22:42:49 GMT -5 Thank you for sharing your journey throughout this trying time. I wish nothing but the best for you and your son as you begin a new year and a new life.
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dinnaken Full Member Alone and content Posts: 293 Age Range: 61-65	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 29, 2017 18:51:21 GMT -5 obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by dinnaken on Dec 29, 2017 18:51:21 GMT -5 Sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you.

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Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Dec 31, 2017 1:13:28 GMT -5

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Post by scrimshaw on Dec 31, 2017 1:13:28 GMT -5

Oh, man, this is so heartbreaking. Glad to hear you're lined up with grief counseling. Don't be afraid or "ashamed" to share the emotions - I guarantee you they are all perfectly normal.

Be good to yourself.

baza Senior Members Tread your own path Posts: 5,556	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Jan 2, 2018 0:59:56 GMT -5 obobfla likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by baza on Jan 2, 2018 0:59:56 GMT -5 Brother obobfla . I have been away and just catching up on things, including this post of yours. Feeling for you and your son at this time. baz.

Deleted Deleted Member Posts: 0	Not the way I wanted to get out of a Sexless Marriage Jan 2, 2018 17:54:27 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2018 17:54:27 GMT -5 obobfla, I’m so sorry. You have really been through hell. I hope your future holds some better things - soon.

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