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Post by Caris on Nov 2, 2017 16:04:55 GMT -5
My needs have changed since I went through menopause, but before that, I needed/desired sex every day, maybe twice a day. Of course, I didn’t get any, so I was one frustrated lady, which was torture to me because for me, sex is emotional as well as physical, so I felt bereft physically and emotionally. As I am still celibate after 2.5-years post SM, it’s hard to say what would be “normal” for me. I can now go a couple of weeks without thinking about sex, but I also keep myself emotionally “closed off,” regarding men, so who knows what my needs may be if someone special came along, and revived this “dead horse.” I think normal depends on individual needs and desires. This is me - I could have sex once a day, if not more, but I'm lucky to get it every two weeks, if that. We've been as long as 3 months and I was a total bitch during that time, I admit. It was a miserable time for me, not getting any affection, let alone sex. I honestly thought I was going to have a nervous breakdown for a while there. I was hoping I was close to menopause, so the desire would wane, but my doctor just told me I'm not even close . It’s a terrible thing to wish for menopause to diminish sexual desire. I did have a nervous breakdown, although it took 20-years. It’s not right for anyone to live this way. I hope you find a way so that you don’t waste your life as I did. It does terrible things to your wellbeing and mind, if it goes on too long, and you grow old in the process. Menopause can take years to go through, and my desire never waned during the process. It was only when I’d completed menopause that my libido diminished, and thank God for that because I still don’t have a man in my life, so it’s a blessing really.
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Post by ironhamster on Nov 4, 2017 16:29:16 GMT -5
If any women do have a diminished sex drive after menopause, there is hope. I have a friend that swears by this place. It has gotten her drive back, helped her lose weight, and she says her senses of taste and smell are sharper. This is just FYI. I have no connection to the place, but I have seen the results. sottopelletherapy.com/
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Post by darktippedrose on Nov 5, 2017 18:26:27 GMT -5
If any women do have a diminished sex drive after menopause, there is hope. I have a friend that swears by this place. It has gotten her drive back, helped her lose weight, and she says her senses of taste and smell are sharper. This is just FYI. I have no connection to the place, but I have seen the results. sottopelletherapy.com/THANX! Maybe I'll try them out. I'm not menopausal, but with PCOS its like being constantly in a state premenopause or something like that.
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