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Post by GeekGoddess on May 30, 2017 22:15:02 GMT -5
@smartkat - EXCELLENT work protecting your own interests. He is nuts. Completely. Glad you blocked him. On a couple of the apps, there IS a way to "report" a profile. If your account allows this, I would recommend doing so. I don't know what really happens when this function is used, but in this case, I would do it and not worry about what form of rebuke he may receive from the site. SO glad that he showed this side so quickly though - in a way, that was a real blessing. I can deal with crazy I see THAT clearly (by walking away). I like bballgirl's quote - he only deserves those two words "Fuck Off"
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Post by eternaloptimism on May 31, 2017 0:00:58 GMT -5
So, now he's gone..... next!
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Post by cagedtiger on May 31, 2017 15:20:17 GMT -5
Whoa. +1 on reporting him, seriously. Glad you got out intact, without too much bs to deal with. I hate that it happened to begin with, though.
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Post by JonDoe on Jun 2, 2017 18:59:53 GMT -5
@smartkat I'm truly proud of you! I think you handled it well, with patience and grace, and perhaps made it a teaching moment for him too. No guarantees that he will actually learn from this and grow, but you put your best foot forward in the awkward situation. Kudos Kiddo!
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Post by Dan on Jun 9, 2017 12:57:06 GMT -5
What do you guys think about this? I think you should get a new burner number, and start texting him. He won't know who you are, so use this opportunity to really mess with him. Option 1: Pretend you are a woman he met, but be vague on the details, and get him really confused. "Hey: we had a really good conversation. Why haven't you called me back?" "So, are we going to meet at that place like you said?" And then convert over to abusive txting it is clear he doesn't "remember" fake-you. Option 2: Set up a fake profile, hit on him, set up a date.... and just don't show. (I think I'm surprisingly evil, sometimes. Do I surprise you with my twisted suggestions? Knowing you, SK, the more twisted, probably the more delighted you are!) And if you don't do this because you don't feel like you want to be mean to him, at least consider it a public service: the more time of his you tie up, the less time he is out there abusing other reasonable women.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 9, 2017 13:37:32 GMT -5
ROFLMAO, Dan! If I had more time on my hands, I'd consider it! I love the way you think! Want me to PM his number to you, ha ha?
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Post by DryCreek on Jun 9, 2017 14:57:05 GMT -5
What do you guys think about this? I think you should get a new burner number, and start texting him. He won't know who you are, so use this opportunity to really mess with him. "The state welfare department is requiring a paternity test before I can claim benefits. They'll be contacting you to setup an appointment."
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Post by Apocrypha on Jun 9, 2017 18:27:54 GMT -5
Psycho - lots of them out there. Ladies too, gents. I've vetted a bunch of nutters for you up in Canada.
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Post by TMD on Jun 9, 2017 20:26:38 GMT -5
I think you should get a new burner number, and start texting him. He won't know who you are, so use this opportunity to really mess with him. "The state welfare department is requiring a paternity test before I can claim benefits. They'll be contacting you to setup an appointment." First we need to answer this question: can the dude actually get laid?
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Post by TMD on Jun 9, 2017 20:27:06 GMT -5
"The state welfare department is requiring a paternity test before I can claim benefits. They'll be contacting you to setup an appointment." First we need to answer this question: can the dude actually get laid? I know. I am a killjoy. Just text about the paternity test. It would be funny.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 11, 2017 19:26:01 GMT -5
"The state welfare department is requiring a paternity test before I can claim benefits. They'll be contacting you to setup an appointment." First we need to answer this question: can the dude actually get laid? I'm not going to be his test case!
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Post by seabr33z3 on Jun 11, 2017 20:09:30 GMT -5
I think you should get a new burner number, and start texting him. He won't know who you are, so use this opportunity to really mess with him. "The state welfare department is requiring a paternity test before I can claim benefits. They'll be contacting you to setup an appointment." Or " the STD clinic told me to contact anyone I've been with and I'm just working my way down the list"
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