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Post by McRoomMate on Jan 22, 2017 11:14:14 GMT -5
Link to test is here: www.gotoquiz.com/is_your_marriage_healthy_and_happyFor what it is worth - interesting 100 question Marriage health test. I answered as honestly as I could and it gave me 51% score - I guess that means average and marriage needs work but savable. Meanwhile, I have been in an SM Marriage with ZERO intimacy and romance - zero couple life - if I stay in this marriage it is a de facto "Celibacy Oath" - I probably could insist on more sex and she would oblige - maybe it is my pride but why does she never even try to hold me or kiss me or hug me or show love. To be transparent - neither do I - at this point there is no "refuser" because no one bothers asking. So online tests are online tests. If anyone knows of a really good online test for SM - please let me know. Of course no shortage of excellent wisdom in the group threads. |
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Post by baza on Jan 22, 2017 17:07:10 GMT -5
One really good online test is whether you are a member of this very group - "iliasm.org".
If you are, then your marriage is in desperate - probably terminal - dysfunction.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 22, 2017 17:23:12 GMT -5
One really good online test is whether you are a member of this very group - "iliasm.org". If you are, then your marriage is in desperate - probably terminal - dysfunction. very funny, I needed a good laugh today |
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Post by lwoetin on Jan 23, 2017 1:47:47 GMT -5
It wasn't a 100 question marriage test. I answered around 16 questions. I got cheated!  I got a score of 66. "You're almost to a passing grade. You have serious issues, but also know how to handle most of them. You could use some advice from time to time, but may not need regular counseling." I guess I got a D+. I think I was too pessimistic on one of my answers. I will curve my grade to 70, call it a C and I passed. |
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 23, 2017 8:08:12 GMT -5
I got a 27%. I answered based on when we were together.
It said we need counseling soon but the marriage could be saved.
It could not have been saved.
I guess the most positive things were we both have good jobs and we didn't fight much, but that's just avoidance and lack of communication.
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Post by iceman on Jan 23, 2017 9:00:00 GMT -5
34% for me. Says we need counseling and we're in trouble but possibly the marriage could be saved. I don't feel like it can be saved. Not unless I'm prepared to go through life in a perpetual state of unhappiness.
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 23, 2017 10:15:48 GMT -5
I wonder who will get the lowest score? So far it's me! Is there a prize for that?  |
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Post by McRoomMate on Jan 23, 2017 17:28:46 GMT -5
Honestly - I think this "TEST" is sponsored by the Marriage Therapist Association - Everyone can save their marriage just sign up for Therapy and pay for it - long term therapy for serious but "savable" marriages. Serious credibility issue.
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Post by McRoomMate on Jan 23, 2017 17:29:58 GMT -5
One really good online test is whether you are a member of this very group - "iliasm.org". If you are, then your marriage is in desperate - probably terminal - dysfunction. Amen - Thank-you for the simple test. Simple is good. I suspect this "TEST" is sponsored by Marriage Therapists for business boosts. LOL |
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Post by o2feelg00d on Jan 23, 2017 17:31:50 GMT -5
I scored 41% with serious issue troubling the marriage, communication being one of them. Should consider counseling,
Yeah been there done that....duh!
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Post by McRoomMate on Jan 24, 2017 18:15:05 GMT -5
I got a 27%. I answered based on when we were together. It said we need counseling soon but the marriage could be saved. It could not have been saved. I guess the most positive things were we both have good jobs and we didn't fight much, but that's just avoidance and lack of communication. @bbgallgirl Just took Test again and actually I was 41% . . . so you "win" (I am jealous I wanted the victory). Loaded test - I think anybody could score and still "Marriage is Savable". Loaded questions - best example - "Your intimate life" . . . the worst answer was "Practically does not exist" - What is missing. "ZERO intimate life" So loaded to win $$$ Follow the Money - Marriage Therapist Association sponsored I bet if we dig deep enough. |
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 24, 2017 18:17:45 GMT -5
I got a 27%. I answered based on when we were together. It said we need counseling soon but the marriage could be saved. It could not have been saved. I guess the most positive things were we both have good jobs and we didn't fight much, but that's just avoidance and lack of communication. @bbgallgirl Just took Test again and actually I was 41% . . . so you "win" (I am jealous I wanted the victory). Loaded test - I think anybody could score and still "Marriage is Savable". Loaded questions - best example - "Your intimate life" . . . the worst answer was "Practically does not exist" - What is missing. "ZERO intimate life" So loaded to win $$$ Follow the Money - Marriage Therapist Association sponsored I bet if we dig deep enough. I agree it's a money making gimmick! |
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Post by completelybaked on Jan 24, 2017 23:17:35 GMT -5
I just took it and only got 45%. I thought would have scored higher. After all, everything is great, except the sex. Right?
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jan 25, 2017 0:34:41 GMT -5
16%.
I think it's time
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 25, 2017 2:07:26 GMT -5
Winner winner!! I knew you would score lower than me. I already claimed my prize though Opposite Land. Your turn! |
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