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Post by rejected101 on Jan 5, 2017 10:38:35 GMT -5
Apparently there is scientific proof that a woman's libido will increase the more she has sex (I don't why). Are there any woman here who have experienced this of have friends who talk of it?
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 5, 2017 11:30:52 GMT -5
That sort of makes sense. I know it's a tough one for the women here to chime in because most are in a SM and not having regular sex, and honestly I don't know what the correct answer is scientifically but I can only answer for myself being that I had sex more this past year 80% with the same man, than I did the past twenty years 3 fold.
Sometimes after I had sex I wanted more the next day it just depended on the type of sex I had how many times I orgasmed if I wanted more the next day. If it was one round just a quickie yes I was horny the next day.
If it was 3 rounds, I orgasmed ten times then I was good for 2 or 3 days max.
Sometimes it's hormonal:
If I was on my period my sex drive is off the hook.
Sometimes I think I have more testosterone than some men!
That's the best scientific sample I can give.
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 5, 2017 11:39:59 GMT -5
She has to want it at all first. From my experience, low libido does not become more than low libido simply because she agreed to have sex for whatever reason. Of course, this also would sort of depend on the woman wanting her libido to be increased, even if ...
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Post by bballgirl on Jan 5, 2017 13:09:28 GMT -5
I was sex starved for 20 years so I enjoy sex but I don't want it with just anyone I need to have some connection, attraction and chemistry. I'm not a sex addict. My theory is that if my H was a normal man and after me all these years then maybe I wouldn't be into it so much.
The bottom line is people have to want sex and know how to enjoy it in order for it to be good and frequent.
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Post by eternaloptimism on Jan 5, 2017 13:38:42 GMT -5
I always want it
I always have
I always will
Actually, I conned myself somehow into not wanting it for a couple of years when the dud was "housebound" with his back.
Then I remembered ha ha.
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Post by baza on Jan 5, 2017 22:47:02 GMT -5
Is there a source you can quote for this claim Brother rejected ??
It looks like an interesting theory. Wouldn't mind reading up on it.
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Post by beachguy on Jan 5, 2017 22:53:20 GMT -5
Didn't work for my STBX. But then the idea that nothing applies to asexuals was already floated
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Post by nancyb on Jan 5, 2017 23:01:29 GMT -5
If I was any more libidinous I'd be a danger.
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Post by lyn on Jan 6, 2017 0:41:52 GMT -5
My libido has always been the same whether I'm having sex 3x per day. 3x per month or 3x per year. This doesn't really apply I guess to the original question but, ugh, sometimes I wish my libido would take a seat. Blue body sucks.
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Post by Pinkberry on Jan 6, 2017 1:51:38 GMT -5
I don't have scientific proof, but I have my personal experience to say that is true. The more I get it, the more I want it, like to the point of being obnoxious.
There is some scientific basis in the connectedness that comes with orgasm. Release of pheromones and hormones during orgasm elicit an emotional connection to one's partner and increase positive feelings that bond you to your partner. As far as more is better, I can't really say, but presumably that could be true.
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Post by darktippedrose on Jan 6, 2017 3:28:16 GMT -5
I can't say specifically as I haven't had sex in 3.5 years. Haven't had my booty rubbed even longer than that. I haven't had a hug or even a kiss in at least 2 years, and even that was pretty fake.
I can tell you that unless I'm feeling bad, its easy to get me in the mood. A sex scene from a movie, innocently talking about sex and then I'm feeling all wiggly.
I can say that sometimes, me having 2 orgasms turns into 5, and sometimes i"m still horny
but on the other hand, I can masterbate 5x and not be satisfied, but one real life sex and only one orgasm and i"m more sated.
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Post by rejected101 on Jan 6, 2017 8:31:19 GMT -5
Is there a source you can quote for this claim Brother rejected ?? It looks like an interesting theory. Wouldn't mind reading up on it. It was something I read a long time ago so I can't give you a source I'm afraid. Let me do some digging. |
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Post by novembercomingfire on Jan 6, 2017 12:54:33 GMT -5
Didn't work for my STBX. But then the idea that nothing applies to asexuals was already floated In my head, asexuals are simply from another planet. I have no ability to understand at all. I might be inclined to want to understand but for their seemingly incessant need to take over everything and redefine normalcy ... |
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Post by rejected101 on Jan 6, 2017 16:04:24 GMT -5
I can't say specifically as I haven't had sex in 3.5 years. Haven't had my booty rubbed even longer than that. I haven't had a hug or even a kiss in at least 2 years, and even that was pretty fake. I can tell you that unless I'm feeling bad, its easy to get me in the mood. A sex scene from a movie, innocently talking about sex and then I'm feeling all wiggly. I can say that sometimes, me having 2 orgasms turns into 5, and sometimes i"m still horny but on the other hand, I can masterbate 5x and not be satisfied, but one real life sex and only one orgasm and i"m more sated. I admire your commitment. If it were 3.5 years for mean I'd have cheated or left full stop! |
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Post by unmatched on Jan 9, 2017 21:08:55 GMT -5
My libido has always been the same whether I'm having sex 3x per day. 3x per month or 3x per year. This doesn't really apply I guess to the original question but, ugh, sometimes I wish my libido would take a seat. Blue body sucks. That is why your avatar is blue! I didn't realise it had a meaning. |
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