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Post by Rhapsodee on Oct 22, 2016 11:23:55 GMT -5
Lelo, as you know, a good student is willing to practice, practice, practice. Yoda: "There is no try. You do or you don't" The Force is with me. |
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Post by Dan on Oct 22, 2016 11:32:11 GMT -5
OMG, I found the answer! Why didn't I think of this 16 years ago. I could have saved myself a lot of hurt, depression, and loneliness, and I wouldn't even be here today. This is actually a well respected technique that counselors apply when sex has had a long pause, and the couple just has some minor hang-ups about getting back in the sack. It has a name, like "reintroduction therapy", or something. (I'll update this when I find the actual name.) It might be useful after the break from sex taken upon the birth of a child. Or maybe to overcome the embarrassment of one sexual experience where "he couldn't get it up". But, obviously, it is not really a viable solution to fix the SM. Among other things, in my wife's case, she isn't fond of long foreplay. This stretches it out over -- what -- five days??? ("Just stick it in me, get off, and let me get to sleep". OK, maybe she never actually said that... but sometimes it was pretty close.) |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 22, 2016 11:57:28 GMT -5
Yoda: "There is no try. You do or you don't" The Force is with me. My light saber is ready! |
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Post by solodriver on Oct 22, 2016 11:59:02 GMT -5
Yoda: "There is no try. You do or you don't" The Force is with me. Yoda agrees 
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Post by beachguy on Oct 22, 2016 14:48:33 GMT -5
OMG, I found the answer! Why didn't I think of this 16 years ago. I could have saved myself a lot of hurt, depression, and loneliness, and I wouldn't even be here today. This is actually a well respected technique that counselors apply when sex has had a long pause, and the couple just has some minor hang-ups about getting back in the sack. It has a name, like "reintroduction therapy", or something. (I'll update this when I find the actual name.) It might be useful after the break from sex taken upon the birth of a child. Or maybe to overcome the embarrassment of one sexual experience where "he couldn't get it up". But, obviously, it is not really a viable solution to fix the SM. Among other things, in my wife's case, she isn't fond of long foreplay. This stretches it out over -- what -- five days??? ("Just stick it in me, get off, and let me get to sleep". OK, maybe she never actually said that... but sometimes it was pretty close.) It might also require a willing partner. And also a male participant willing to be totally blue balled twice a week for 5 weeks ... Might not be easy for the ladies either but I can't speak for that |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 22, 2016 19:31:45 GMT -5
OMG, I found the answer! Why didn't I think of this 16 years ago. I could have saved myself a lot of hurt, depression, and loneliness, and I wouldn't even be here today. This is actually a well respected technique that counselors apply when sex has had a long pause, and the couple just has some minor hang-ups about getting back in the sack. It has a name, like "reintroduction therapy", or something. (I'll update this when I find the actual name.) It might be useful after the break from sex taken upon the birth of a child. Or maybe to overcome the embarrassment of one sexual experience where "he couldn't get it up". But, obviously, it is not really a viable solution to fix the SM. Among other things, in my wife's case, she isn't fond of long foreplay. This stretches it out over -- what -- five days??? ("Just stick it in me, get off, and let me get to sleep". OK, maybe she never actually said that... but sometimes it was pretty close.) Is it "sensate focus"? I tried to get Mr. Kat to do sensate focus. |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2016 9:36:17 GMT -5
Lelo, as you know, a good student is willing to practice, practice, practice. "Willingness to practice" is not in question. Availability of a "practice partner" is. I'm with you on this Dan. I love to practice. Now where's my practice partner. Oh yeah, I'm only getting practice twice a week right now. Maybe I'll have to find a new practice partner if my current one does not work out |
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