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Post by mirrororchid on Jun 7, 2021 5:51:06 GMT -5
We all flirted with everybody. We all went home by ourselves. Making eyes was enough for me. Long game, folks... Good night y’all! After what you've been through, you'd turn down a married woman? (making sure the husband isn't being kept in the dark, though)
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Post by Handy on Aug 24, 2021 13:34:57 GMT -5
Padgemi OK. So far I have 1 song to write, which may or may not involve cats… Who else?
I can replay music from an old record, an eight-track, a cassette, a CD and now a MP file. When it comes to writing music I suck, so I don't try.
There are 3 cats in the house so a person can find cat hair here and there.
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Post by sadkat on Aug 24, 2021 20:08:38 GMT -5
OK. So far I have 1 song to write, which may or may not involve cats… Who else? Well, I definitely like the heart song much better than the cat song!
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Post by sadkat on Aug 30, 2021 21:10:49 GMT -5
Thanks for the laughs itme! 😂😂😂
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Post by worksforme2 on Aug 31, 2021 9:33:10 GMT -5
Don't quit your day job...............
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Post by jerri on Sept 1, 2021 4:14:46 GMT -5
I wonder who that song could be about? I have some blue orchids that are no where this gorgeous. Looks like a bug
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Post by mirrororchid on Sept 1, 2021 5:39:26 GMT -5
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Post by jerri on Sept 1, 2021 15:05:27 GMT -5
My husband likes to shag the mattress so I think I will disguise myself as a mattress!!
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Post by mirrororchid on Nov 26, 2021 6:00:04 GMT -5
My technique is actually quite different with this apparent LL: -I say things like: "take me as I am or not at all." -When she gets pissed, she gets to hear me say "I have no guilt and no shame about my actions." -I got no problem having her a reciprocal accessory while I move ahead with my life, my way. -I feel no resentment as I find fulfillment from multiple sources and especially from within. -I ain't getting married. Apocrypha's theory that sex aversion is caused by an unacknowledged offense of some kind could be triggered by words like that, I'd think. They signal not just independence, but indifference and that can hurt. Perhaps they didn't make an appearance until her controlling behaviors began, in which case... well played, sir. I'm moderately convinced that an "accessory" woman is a seal of approval on a guy. www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/married-men-are-better-boyfriends/news-story/d417125d25789e2c201da386718dc761"Taken" has the benefits of a husband, fewer risks, less societal judgment, and the option of making him into one, if he's up for it. Your revulsion may fade in time. Maybe. Wonder if a new girlfriend will make pillow pet queen "reset".
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Post by jim44444 on Nov 26, 2021 7:53:46 GMT -5
My husband likes to shag the mattress so I think I will disguise myself as a mattress!! I am sorry but I may have laughed way too hard at this visual.
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Post by jim44444 on Nov 26, 2021 9:25:11 GMT -5
Happy Thanksgiving Yall! Life is so deliciously complicated, folks and I couldn't be more thrilled by all the irony and the tension! . . . -Her casual put-downs of my pre-existing friends and family (my bar friends and daughters, primarily.) . . . Happy Thanksgiving to you as well. An interesting update, it shows that you have learned from your experience. Strange how the quip about her put downs of your daughters jumped out at me. To me that is a deal breaker after the one and only warning.
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Post by northstarmom on Nov 26, 2021 17:53:35 GMT -5
padgemi: "Yes. My declarations of independence did not surface until a myriad of false accusations were launched against me, including an admission that she was using her home security cameras to spy on me. Crucifying me for *not* giving her puppy dog adequate attention while she was away, without knowledge of what got done beyond the range of her cameras. All eyes on this one. Loving her from close-Ish range physically. And from light years away emotionally."
That camera thing would have ended my relationship with her. Sheesh! Yes, you can do waaaay better!
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Post by greatcoastal on Nov 26, 2021 19:44:30 GMT -5
Wow. I just provided the ammunition she needed to dump me. And she just walked out. Carpe diem, y’all! Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Chalk one up for a "bad, yet learning experience". Thanks for sharing your mistakes and victories. ( I can relate!) Bravo on putting yourself first, becoming much more aware of red flags, and having the courage to set and enforce your own boundaries!
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Post by worksforme2 on Nov 27, 2021 6:42:43 GMT -5
Wow. I just provided the ammunition she needed to dump me. And she just walked out. Carpe diem, y’all! There are oh so may people out there that are just bat s*it crazy. So recognizing them early in the game is important. Once you do then it becomes much easier, even desirable, to kick them to the curb. And like you I will never marry again. At 72 my libido has slowed way down so "blue ball syndrum" doesn't drive me to make bad decisions any more. I think for me sex is pretty much strictly for recreation and fun, and not much for emotional fulfillment.
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Post by jerri on Nov 27, 2021 8:23:47 GMT -5
My husband likes to shag the mattress so I think I will disguise myself as a mattress!! I am sorry but I may have laughed way too hard at this visual. FWB thinks I should experiment with all sorts of textures and then ask him to please me as I have pleased him! Nah!
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