Sex (lack of) is but a symptom ... Jul 5, 2019 13:37:05 GMT -5 via mobile saarinista and isthisit like this
Post by ironhamster on Jul 5, 2019 13:37:05 GMT -5
I'd love to get feedback from some of the women members, here.
A lot of this withholding needs no political pressuring. My wife would create arguments based on her moral beliefs, or challenge mine, and the results of a disagreement was no less cold and sparse than any other day. Meanwhile, I am pretty sure the beds of higher libido but politically diametrically opposed couples such as Mary Matalin and James Carville rock the house in ways we don't even care to imagine.
One of my early mentors in this was a woman who described my wife as a "parasite." I dismissed that for months, before realizing she was right. In retrospect, she was right about everything. I recently reconnected with her, and, one thing she said was that, when her SIL made the parasite observation about her husband she fought that for months, too.