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Post by flashjohn on Dec 14, 2018 15:19:32 GMT -5
I think the problem is that the refuser does not love you, so eventually, your love for him/her dies. You can't do it forever. So what is keeping you there? My children keep me here. But I am thinking of ways to take care of them and separate from their mother. It’s bad but staying now would be no better. I have to tell you that would be really hard. If you mean take care financially, you would probably be paying child support. I stayed until my youngest was out of HS because I did not want to leave my daughters with their mother because she is verbally abusive.
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Post by carl on Dec 14, 2018 16:45:26 GMT -5
My children keep me here. But I am thinking of ways to take care of them and separate from their mother. It’s bad but staying now would be no better. I have to tell you that would be really hard. If you mean take care financially, you would probably be paying child support. I stayed until my youngest was out of HS because I did not want to leave my daughters with their mother because she is verbally abusive. I don’t think child support would cost me any more than I am already spending on my family, but it would cost something to get another house if we separated. Yes the main problem is leaving kids with a parent who I find problems with and I am an adult, so might be that she would be hard going for my kids or perhaps she would be better without me around. Think I would have already left if that was the case. It would be a case of maintaining some supervision and keeping a very close eye. A double life. Don’t think that would be much fun but it might be the only way.
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