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Post by hopingforachange on Oct 4, 2019 7:07:30 GMT -5
Red, pink, blue,...I could care less. What I am interested in what's just behind those panties. I hear you and that's cool. But here's a thought. Speaking for myself, at least, if I make an effort and go to the expense to get nice lingerie, it's because I want to I look appealing for a guy, so I really appreciate it if the guy notices. That stuff isn't cheap, nor easy to find. It's thoughtful for the guy to let his eyes linger on the lace for a few moments and murmur something about how lovely I look in it or whatever. At a bare minimum, try not to rip it. Again, the good stuff is pricey! 😏 While ripping clothes off is sexy, but drawing out the removal and enjoying the arousal is my preferred way to go. The act of running your finger along the edge of lace, feeling the mix of fabric and skin, the tightening of straps as he pulls them up and runs his hands under the straps. The anticipation as you watch him slowly pulls the laces to untie three bow, the loosening of fabric as he releases the knot. The pinch as he undoes the clasps. The sounds and expressions as he firsts sees your breasts, watching as your panties being pulled down ass is exposed. His hands stopping you from removing garter belt, bending you over and using it to pull your ass in tight.
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Post by worksforme2 on Oct 4, 2019 7:55:50 GMT -5
Red, pink, blue,...I could care less. What I am interested in what's just behind those panties. I hear you and that's cool. But here's a thought. Speaking for myself, at least, if I make an effort and go to the expense to get nice lingerie, it's because I want to I look appealing for a guy, so I really appreciate it if the guy notices. That stuff isn't cheap, nor easy to find. It's thoughtful for the guy to let his eyes linger on the lace for a few moments and murmur something about how lovely I look in it or whatever. At a bare minimum, try not to rip it. Again, the good stuff is pricey! 😏 I said I didn't care about the color. I never said I didn't appreciate and enjoy a woman decked out in lacy lady gear. It's been a really really long time since I've seen any of that stuff up close and personal. And I have never been so crass or immature as to tear or destroy a woman's expensive panties or bra. I would be wanting to see her in them again in the future.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2019 9:52:05 GMT -5
Red, pink, blue,...I could care less. What I am interested in what's just behind those panties. I hear you and that's cool. But here's a thought. Speaking for myself, at least, if I make an effort and go to the expense to get nice lingerie, it's because I want to I look appealing for a guy, so I really appreciate it if the guy notices. That stuff isn't cheap, nor easy to find. It's thoughtful for the guy to let his eyes linger on the lace for a few moments and murmur something about how lovely I look in it or whatever. At a bare minimum, try not to rip it. Again, the good stuff is pricey! 😏 Reminds me of an old joke I heard somewhere. In the movies the underwear rip is all sexy and passionate but in the real world you're just tugging on her undies.
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Post by DryCreek on Oct 4, 2019 11:10:22 GMT -5
I’m with apathetic and deadzone75... I appreciate that attention and effort was given. That intimacy is treated as important, not that thing that must be done and checked off the list. That said... bold colors are very eye-catching, but so are black or white. Like the design, the “best” color depends on her skin tone, hair color, mood, and whether she plans to accessorize with a pitchfork or angel wings. 😂 I’d probably be more impressed that it’s an outfit at all, which means the visual was intended to be a gift, before the unwrapping happens. If I put on my “photographer” hat there are definitely better choices than others; in the real world, it’s all amazing!
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Post by saarinista on Oct 4, 2019 16:35:17 GMT -5
worksforme2 I was not suggesting you personally would be a lingerie ripper or ignorer. Just making a general statement.
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Post by deadzone75 on Oct 4, 2019 20:33:19 GMT -5
worksforme2 I was not suggesting you personally would be a lingerie ripper or ignorer. Just making a general statement. Has anyone even ripped lingerie before? There is lingerie sitting in the back of my W's dresser, maybe I can take it out and see how easy it is to rip it--not like it will ever be worn anyway. Once I accidentally slightly ripped someone's panties while engaged in frantic exploration, but I didn't tear them off her like Hulk Hogan.
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Post by sadkat on Oct 5, 2019 0:12:07 GMT -5
Congratulations and appreciation to sadkat for starting and maintaining QOTD all 100 pages of them! It’s fun, enlightening and thought provoking. You rock sadkat . Aww! Thank you!!
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Post by sadkat on Oct 5, 2019 0:14:59 GMT -5
I hear you and that's cool. But here's a thought. Speaking for myself, at least, if I make an effort and go to the expense to get nice lingerie, it's because I want to I look appealing for a guy, so I really appreciate it if the guy notices. That stuff isn't cheap, nor easy to find. It's thoughtful for the guy to let his eyes linger on the lace for a few moments and murmur something about how lovely I look in it or whatever. At a bare minimum, try not to rip it. Again, the good stuff is pricey! 😏 Yes, exactly this. Lingerie is bought and worn to gain a reaction. Please just take a moment to appreciate it! Then dispense with it, no problems with that. I agree- abuse of sexy lingerie is a sin. But... the care one must take to avoid damage while taking it off.... need I say more? I’d say deadzone75 is on to something!
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Post by sadkat on Oct 5, 2019 0:19:53 GMT -5
Ok- I might be putting myself out on a limb here but, oh well! How many of you guys actually prefer red underwater over pink, blue, yellow- whatever color? What’s so special about red? The morning of the wedding, I asked the best man to go find some RED silk boxers, which I put on that night. Fast forward 3 years to SM; I would put these red boxers on and pull them up slightly above my jeans. This went unnoticed. The next time I pulled them up higher and higher until she cluelessly asked why my drawers were showing. This is the part where explanations are given, eyes roll, and I never wear red underwear again. Umm... did she notice them the night of the wedding? I mean, really notice them- like feeling you up and commenting on how silky they were kind of noticing?
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Post by sadkat on Oct 5, 2019 0:23:45 GMT -5
I hear you and that's cool. But here's a thought. Speaking for myself, at least, if I make an effort and go to the expense to get nice lingerie, it's because I want to I look appealing for a guy, so I really appreciate it if the guy notices. That stuff isn't cheap, nor easy to find. It's thoughtful for the guy to let his eyes linger on the lace for a few moments and murmur something about how lovely I look in it or whatever. At a bare minimum, try not to rip it. Again, the good stuff is pricey! 😏 While ripping clothes off is sexy, but drawing out the removal and enjoying the arousal is my preferred way to go. The act of running your finger along the edge of lace, feeling the mix of fabric and skin, the tightening of straps as he pulls them up and runs his hands under the straps. The anticipation as you watch him slowly pulls the laces to untie three bow, the loosening of fabric as he releases the knot. The pinch as he undoes the clasps. The sounds and expressions as he firsts sees your breasts, watching as your panties being pulled down ass is exposed. His hands stopping you from removing garter belt, bending you over and using it to pull your ass in tight. Lordy! Where’s a fan when I need one?
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Post by sadkat on Oct 5, 2019 9:10:09 GMT -5
Question for today- in your opinion, what is the worst thing your sm has has done to you (emotionally/mentally)? Those who are out and in new relationships, what still causes you grief?
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Post by sunnysean on Oct 5, 2019 10:00:20 GMT -5
What is the worst thing your sm has has done to you:
It has made me ask too many "what if"s. I found myself, in the last couple of weeks, social media stalking. I looked up a few old girlfriends that I stupidly dumped because I was waiting for marriage, and they were ready to "try it out." I found myself thinking, what if? Why did I think it was so important to wait for marriage? I don't know if I would call it regret, but these were girls that were really into me, and I was into them, I was a sexless dater, I guess I deserve what I have now.
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Post by Handy on Oct 5, 2019 10:11:46 GMT -5
I will now admit my attitude about fancy underwear was why bother. I see now I should have been more into what my W wanted to portray based on Saarinista's post about wanting to look appealing. In my own life I missed the idea of fancy garments adding to a woman's appeal. For me the person would be 99% of what was appealing. Sorry that I missed my W's attempt at looking more appealing. Maybe can do better in the future.
BTW, I never ripped anything off but I am a skin on skin man and never liked the idea of something coming between us. I have seen videos of guys having sex with their pants lowered but still on and think WTF, that is a dumb way to have sex. Crotch-less panties? Not much better but some people go for then or they wouldn't be sold.
Skin on skin for me.
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Post by Handy on Oct 5, 2019 10:18:38 GMT -5
what is the worst thing your sm has has done to you....I began to realize I missed clues that could have made the marriage better for both of us. I also did things I thought that would make life better for both of us that didn't result any improvements. My SM reinforced the idea that women are not all that sexual once the kids arrive.
This and a few other forums showed me some women like sex more than I had imagined.
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Post by sadkat on Oct 5, 2019 14:00:36 GMT -5
What is the worst thing your sm has has done to you:It has made me ask too many "what if"s. I found myself, in the last couple of weeks, social media stalking. I looked up a few old girlfriends that I stupidly dumped because I was waiting for marriage, and they were ready to "try it out." I found myself thinking, what if? Why did I think it was so important to wait for marriage? I don't know if I would call it regret, but these were girls that were really into me, and I was into them, I was a sexless dater, I guess I deserve what I have now. No one deserves being in a sexless marriage. What you have now is a successful business arrangement, not a wild love affair. Would things have been better had you taken these girls up on their offer? Probably. But I don’t believe that has any bearing on your current situation.
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