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Post by sadkat on Feb 10, 2019 11:02:58 GMT -5
Not really, but I've gone without joy, fulfillment, and sex most of my life. At least I would have a year of something. I'd rather take a final year of being fucked silly over my final year NOT being fucked silly. Agreed. And it's not like I would be fucking prostitutes every day, I assume they are expensive and I'm not a millionaire. But if I did have millions of dollars, and I had no family or other obligations, maybe I would fuck prostitutes every day. I got a lot of pent up sexual energy! I understand the frustration of pent up sexual energy. I asked the question because my biggest fear is of dying without experiencing a fulfilling sexual encounter at least once more. I want the whole enchilada, though- the emotional connection and intimacy. That takes time to build and, as someone has already said, it may take longer than the hypothetical year I had left.
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Post by lifeinwoodinville on Feb 10, 2019 11:14:47 GMT -5
Agreed. And it's not like I would be fucking prostitutes every day, I assume they are expensive and I'm not a millionaire. But if I did have millions of dollars, and I had no family or other obligations, maybe I would fuck prostitutes every day. I got a lot of pent up sexual energy! I understand the frustration of pent up sexual energy. I asked the question because my biggest fear is of dying without experiencing a fulfilling sexual encounter at least once more. I want the whole enchilada, though- the emotional connection and intimacy. That takes time to build and, as someone has already said, it may take longer than the hypothetical year I had left. Mmmm... Enchiladas! I get where you are coming from, in the long term I want the same as you do.
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Post by Handy on Feb 10, 2019 13:14:33 GMT -5
lifeinwoodinville I've just always had a thing for that particular model of Fury. I totally understand a person having a desire for something that hits them just right.
I read about WWII and how the European countries recovered from all of the destruction, how people did things on a limited budget and innovations during the war changed people's lives. Well, there is the Citroën vehicle manufacture that tried many unconventional designs and how the company made affordable vehicles. So we have the Citroën CV2 and the H Van, both under powered by today's standards but very useful at the time. I read about how the H Van was manufactured out of corrugated sheet steel and had the power train on a cradle that came out as an assembly. I read about many of the alterations people made to the H Van and thought basically, it was a good vehicle at the time for the masses in Europe. Then there is it e 2CV, another malfunction vehicle. Both are under powered by today's standards and not all that durable, but they were a good choice at the time.
Other Citroën vehicles (Traction Avant, DS, others) had innovative features that merit mentioning but durability was a drawback.
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Post by Handy on Feb 10, 2019 13:20:10 GMT -5
Two things most older people think about are declining sexual abilities and a potential declining sexual interest from both sides of the male - female equation. I have an older male friend that has a fairly high sex drive but has ED so if or when he can find a safe to him play mate oral is the main option.
Sadkat I want the whole enchilada, though- the emotional connection and intimacy.
Same here and I also don't want any crazy stuff or blow back to happen.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 11, 2019 11:06:35 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship?
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Post by isthisit on Feb 11, 2019 11:30:23 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship? Hmmm, tonnes of stuff but for me most importantly trust and lots in common. I have found this very recently which has brought me a great deal of joy. Lucky me.
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Post by catsloveme on Feb 11, 2019 11:34:36 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship? Being able to trust each other enough to be your true selves without fear of judgement.
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Post by DryCreek on Feb 11, 2019 12:00:36 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship? Trust is probably the highest, but compassion, tolerance, and support rank up there. I mean, I trust my co-workers, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to spill my guts or lean on them emotionally like I would a friend.
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Post by h on Feb 11, 2019 12:11:45 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship? Having someone you can open up to who will support you without judgement. Also, having someone who will be honest with you even if it hurts.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 11, 2019 13:12:23 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship? At least a few similar interests, being able to communicate, and trust/being able to depend on them. Interesting: measuring these up against my marriage I see 3 major flaws. As has been said, the sex (or rather lack thereof) is but a symptom. FML ... this is getting exhausting.
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Post by deadzone75 on Feb 11, 2019 13:46:32 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship? Not having to pretend. I currently have no friends I don't have to pretend around, and I've only ever had two in my entire life, people who I felt 100% comfortable being my true and idiotic self around.
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Post by northstarmom on Feb 11, 2019 14:06:09 GMT -5
sadkat: "What’s the most essential part of a friendship?"
Welcoming me as I am.
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Post by flounder on Feb 11, 2019 18:39:13 GMT -5
Your question for today: What’s the most essential part of a friendship? Being a listener.
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Post by carl on Feb 11, 2019 20:54:39 GMT -5
Somebody that makes me laugh and finds me funny. I love having fun so I find that a good quality. Trust and reliability - yes and no. They are absolutely amazing qualities to have but I think I would be a little offended if that’s what I was primarily liked for. I would be friends with someone because I liked them and found them entertaining or interesting and trustworthy too.
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Post by sadkat on Feb 11, 2019 22:59:23 GMT -5
For me, it would definitely be trust. Also dependability. I see a friend as someone who would keep my secrets and be there when I needed them.
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